Ok heres the deal, I just found this really cute girl that I actually like (and I have like 10 others that like me but I dont like any of em) and I just found out she likes me back.) I am sick of having relationships in which I get to attacthed and then end messing up or going to fast or slow or screwing up in some way. I let this chick know I liked her (in a note yes I know childish but were at high school and I couldnt get her alone, but at least it kept her smiling for the rest of the day) and I havent asked her to go out with me yet...I probably will this upcoming week but I want tips from girls and guys on what I should do. I just want others past experience so I can perfect my own strategy and not screw things up this time. I dont have any problems with talking or being romantic or kissing btw. Just give tips and advice please. What would you do? or what would you want your bf/gf to do?
2006-09-03 13:15:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you just have to move slowly....dont just rush to anything that in the end you will end up being lonely...Maybe you can go out, watch a movie...step by step...dont give everything at a time...save for yourself...Try to know her more first..and if you think you like personality then little by little you can get more closer to her...but always think before doing anything.....
2006-09-03 13:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well if the note idea kept her smiling, maybe you should use a note again. if you don't want to overuse that method, i would try my best to get her alone and ask her then.
2006-09-03 13:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Skullface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run before you can walk. Ask her out first. Be spontaneous, Be Yourself.
2006-09-03 13:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what your interested in, and ask her about her interests. Take her out to dinner.
2006-09-03 13:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Hicktown girl66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to go to a movie and the worst she can say is no!
2006-09-03 13:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it if you know her well but be considerate of her then your less likely too mess it up
do what your heart tells you
2006-09-03 13:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Allie gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not screwing things up.
2006-09-03 13:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never get this perfect as all girls are different. Just be yourself!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 13:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you would around your friends but act fast she's waiting.
2006-09-03 13:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by waplambadoobatawhopbamboo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh... if ya like her then ask her out. its not rocket science. very simple
2006-09-03 13:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋