I went out with this girl about 2-3 years ago, but she broke up with me, her friend told me she still have feelings for me about 3 months later, but i didnt do anything cause i was stupid and young. Now I see her about everyday and i just can't get my mind off her, whenever im around her i get this weird feeling and i get very shy and nervous, that i normally not get around anyone. I know i still love her but, now she is going out with another guy, and everytime i see them it just tear me apart and i have no idea what i can do.
2006-09-03 13:10:07 · 21 answers · asked by George 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that either you need to tell her whats up...or move on
2006-09-03 13:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.dennis.10.6.07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It's hard to give advise sometimes when you don't know the age level of the person you're trying to help. Everyone wants to be loved. Girls don't like to be alone. They feel more secure when they have a boyfriend. You need to find out through her friend how much she really likes this guy. If she doesn't have strong feelings for him then you still have a chance. Use this time wisely. Get to know her on a friendly level and then when she becomes available, you can make your move.
2006-09-03 20:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really frusterating to break up with people. When this girl said that she still had feelings for you, maybe she was just missing the way her old lifestyle was. Maybe she just wants things to be the way they were back then. But since you heard that, maybe you are feeling the same way she did too? Since she's got a boyfriend, maybe she's out of the "phase." It's really really complicated, but if you move on with your own life, you can find a lot of other girls.
2006-09-03 20:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may come as a shock but i've had the same prob, only it was my sister dating the guy I was no longer seeing yet still loved. My answer to you is be happy for her even though ur heart is breaking in two.
2006-09-03 20:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st diz works all the time b friends with her like real close friends start talkin 2 her every day then the more you talk the more she will b able 2 trust you, so when she get 2 trust da more vaurnerable she gets so the more u can talk about each other
2006-09-03 20:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Loty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was a relationship from two to three years ago?? Sorry, friend, but it looks like you need to learn to move on. She's definitely not the only woman on this planet.
Nicholas
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2006-09-03 20:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been 2-3 years you need to get over it! Find someone else to ease the pain or start dating... if it was meant to be it will work itself out.
2006-09-03 20:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mandee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
really their is nothing u can do about that situation but be a good friend to her. Because u lost ur chance but move on . It is going to be hard but move on cuz u never know it probably wasnt meant to be.
2006-09-03 20:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her how you feel. u never know, she might feel the same way about you. even if it doesnt work out, at least youll know so you can move on. you dont want to spend the rest of your life wondering what wouldve happened if you said something. go for it. good luck.
2006-09-03 20:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ask her friend to check it out for you to see if she still likes you but tell her friend not to let her know if she does ask her out if not move on
2006-09-03 20:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by sissy_angel92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋