here's the whole story:
before, he liked me. alot. he asked me out and i said yes, but i didn't like him. he said he loved me but i didn't say anything back. later i dumped him before we even went out. (over the phone, bad i know)
then, i went paintballing with him and his friends and it turns out that i really like his personality and he is really cute. i realized what i did was stupid and realized i liked him but i knew he would never like me because he had been treating me sort of different since i dumped him, which makes sense. i broke his heart, i guess.
today, i mentioned i wanted to see a movie. he said he wanted to see it too. then i asked if he wanted to see it with me, he said he didn't know. i told him if he wanted to i was gonna see it in the afternoon tommorow and he could call me if wanted to go. he said ok.
SO IS WHAT HAPPENED REALLY BAD? i feel stupid..
2006-09-03 13:10:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well NEVER do that again! welll you did kinda brake him in to smithereens! just make him feel like a man! sorry but im giving you random answers! i skimmed through the question! :)
2006-09-03 13:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sooooo confused as to what just happened. Years from now you'll reflect on this and realize how silly it all is. Not downing your problem. Somewhere in all this, I know I had the same problem. There's nothing wrong with asking a guy out. The older I got, the more I did it, and it hasn't led me astray yet.
2006-09-03 13:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tericka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you acted to quickly on your decision making this time. Telling someone something important on the phone and not in person isn't the best thing to do. If you two are talking good you have a chance to reconcile but be careful because he will wonder if you will do the same thing again.
2006-09-03 13:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you did was good. By asking him to the movies you helped to bridge the gap. The hole in his heart is on the way to being filled, now it is up to you whether or not the relationship lasts.
2006-09-03 13:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by youngblade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I dumped my b/f cuzz his ex was sayin crap cuzz at the time she was still my friend so when I went out wit him she got mad well I dumped him and he was mad but then over the summer he asked me out and I said yes now I am just not friends wit her we have been goin out 4 two months now before we only went out 4 a week
2006-09-03 13:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by sissy_angel92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH, u screwed up but u realized it, hopefully he will come around and give u a chance. If not now then he might later sometime trust me.
2006-09-03 13:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so the 1st female that u kissed I believe ur gf u did cheat in some degree yet ur pal u purely kissed on the cheek as a pal to be advantageous it became in all probability meaningless she should not be so mad that u have been being friendly merely clarify to her that u rlly do love her an dnt wanna lose her additionally tell her the kiss became meaningless
2016-09-30 07:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just explain it to him that u werent sure of ur feelings until u got to hang out with him and it was a big mistake, hopefully he still feels the same. Good luck!
2006-09-03 13:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not rley honsetly i had 2 tell my best guy friend he was being asked out! same situation. he either doesnt no u asked him out...or he didnt want 2 look like a freak and seem excited and no not really bad...ive done that and we went out again...
2006-09-03 13:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by hottie_wit_a_bodiii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you blew it. Next time, give a guy a chance before you dump him.
2006-09-03 13:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋