doesn't this just relax him so he can feel more confident to hit on more women?
2006-09-03 12:30:22 · 16 answers · asked by nelly78 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure if I got the context of this question correct. It seems like everyone else has gone off on a tangent, but I'll give you what I think you're asking for...
if he want's to have sex with you before he goes out with the "boys," what's the harm in that. If both of you enjoy it, why not?
Someone else implied that it was so that he could "...last longer" if he sleeps with another chic later. I would think that maybe he wants to sleep with you so that he has LESS of the desire to pick up a chic while he's out, because he has already been satisfied by you...his girlfriend. If the two of you are enjoying it as you should be, you should use it as an "appetizer" for the main event that he may want when he gets home from haning with the "boys." His boys are probably coming home to empty beds or taking home "club skanks" that might not be worth the time, but he knows that when he gets home, he gets to finish up the warm up that was started before he left.
Just thought I would give you MY perspective. Hope it helped.
2006-09-03 12:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by iipiki_okami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Skip the casual sex. Do you love him? Is he going over to friends house to hang only with the guys or is he going to clubs. If he is going to clubs or to pick up women, why would you want to sleep with him. Just be careful....if you sleep with him before he goes...then he will for sure leave you behind when there is a baby on the way. Have sex for a better reason. Love, commitment...
2006-09-03 19:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by rcpaden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to brag to his guy friends about how he scored before he hooked up with them. Don't so it under that kind of pressure, it should be the right time, not because he needs something to tell his friends about.
2006-09-03 19:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its his 1st time to sleep with a women than i can understand ur logic a little bit, it may be possible.
if he has already slept with a women then wat confidence he requries now , i cant' understand
may be he is going away from you for sometime and he wants to enjoy some time with u on bed and wants to keep those moments as a memory when he is with his friends
2006-09-03 19:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his friends first.
2006-09-03 19:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet it does, say no way. Take your time with sleeping with anyone , this young man has some issues.
2006-09-03 19:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Louisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, all he is trying to say is he wants to have sex with you nothing more, no friendship, no relationship, no nothing, just sex SO dont bother with him wait till you find the right one, not a unfeeling idiot,
2006-09-03 19:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...he is probably looking to brag to his buddies to tell them how he got some before he left.......its a guy thing
2006-09-03 19:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it means he can get some from u and if he picks up some otha chic then when he has sex with her he will last longer. but that is just my worped mind...but its true
2006-09-03 19:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want to do have sex with him then go for it. but if you dont then dont do it. just do what feel right ok. good luck
2006-09-03 19:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋