This is a poll. Majority wins. And be serious. I met a woman online, we like each other and get along well enough. but now she has postponed the time to meet several times, this last time indefinitely. The question here is do you, the people say "dump her", or do you the people say "keep her"? majority wins and I will carry out the majority choice.
2006-09-03 12:24:03 · 15 answers · asked by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have not really found out WHY she has postponed the meeting...lots of reasons come to mind, but why not be open with her, tell her that you are disturbed by this, and ask her to be honest. If it's over something she said that will turn up obviously untrue, give her a chance to make the confession, and tell her that you understand how someone can make mistakes, yet be too embarrased to own up to them. If you care for her at all, give her a chance to explain.
2006-09-03 13:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by herewittykitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. When I did the online dating, if a meeting was postponed a couple of times, I moved on. I wanted to meet a REAL person not have an email relationship.
2006-09-03 19:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she put off meeting cause she fabricated the truth a little bit or more a lot lol.
I would suspect she doesn't look like her picture or is playing you for whatever reason.
If you like being played keep her.
If you ain't into the games tell her if she doesn't want to meet then see ya!
My vote dump her!
2006-09-03 19:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Her! She's trying to hide something! Move on!
2006-09-03 19:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her..she prolly isnt who she says she is or look as she said she does and all that stuff u never know so let her go u dont know her or owe her nothing i mean really if she is postponing this its bc something isnt right
2006-09-03 19:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, she's just playing around with you
2006-09-03 19:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by whackiejackies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it and see what's going on before making the decision. if she gives you a valid reason, then continue getting to know her since you both seem to like one another. then again... it is the internet and you never really know what's going on... i doubt you should rely on internet strangers to make such a decison! so... i guess, if she doesn't give you a valid reason, then dump her...
2006-09-03 19:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ebony B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. It's probably a guy.
2006-09-03 19:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump
2006-09-03 19:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by iamjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a reason for her continuous postponing.Have you already seen her on webcam?Maybe she portrayed herself as someone she isnt or is married.Let it go.Meet someone real,someone you can see,talk to in a conversation one on one and know theres not someone else.
2006-09-03 19:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋