is it better to lower or raise standards when dating guys?
2006-09-03 12:20:07 · 10 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends what your standards are to begin with. Are they realistic? Will the standards you decide on make you happy? It's fine to have high standards when dating guys as long as they aren't unrealistic standards. It's better because you'll find someone good if you keep your standards realistically high. You'll be quite happy in the end when you find that special someone.
2006-09-03 12:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way we get to know who we our is to go with what you are taught at home , church and school.
Girls who don't hate themselves already for
taking the low- road will.
Its that simple. When we stick to the standards
that we are taught, we will
develop a strong sense of self and self reliance, LIKE who we are, people will want to be like you and not you be like someone lower. It s no accident that teachers and
parents try to steer you
away from harmful stuff we are young. It is because they have seen the results of those who rebel and take their own road or go the way of someone who
is on the low road. It may sound a bit corny but it is oh so true.
2006-09-03 19:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by wpepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do, NEVER EVER lower your standards. You will find the man you want even if it may take a while.
2006-09-03 19:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better to raise your standard so they don't think you are easy girl. But just try to be natural and not to hard to get.
2006-09-03 19:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by guicout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your own personal standards and dont cross the line when faced with something you are not comfortable with. As far as looks, and all the external qualities.. that is only superficial. Look inside.
2006-09-03 19:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
raise them. If you lower then then your just asking to be stepped on!
2006-09-03 19:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by nola232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Objectification dehumanizes people – go ahead and take your dysfunctional character out on the naive people who care about you.
2006-09-03 19:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
high standards can prtect u more. dont settle 4 just any1
2006-09-03 19:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by llamasrcool67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always raise
2006-09-03 19:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to the level four she knows! level 2 is just bein stupid...
2006-09-03 19:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by andrew h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋