ok well there is this boy named Ben.I realli like him and last summer i told him that, but he didnt like me back -at least that is what he said. but he was always dropping hints and used to flirt around me but after i told him my feelings, he said he didnt like me and now
PLEASE GIVE HELP AND/OR ADVICE
Thx. alot alot.
2006-09-03 11:59:15 · 15 answers · asked by punkrokchickie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o yeah, also we totally make a perfect pair-so everyone says and all of his guys friends dont care about me and him going out. By the way, when i told him that i liked him, that was on IM.
2006-09-03 12:05:55 · update #1
Yes he likes you,feeling have changed,he feels akward because he has feeling for you.Its hard to look at someone when u like them.Ask him about it,confront him.I'm just like him.
2006-09-03 12:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ramon O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont tell him you have stronger feelings for him. Just ask him whats up??! Whats up with the way he's acting at school and around you and how he changes online. Ask if theres something wrong or if you did something to make him feel akward. Get his side and answer before you go and tell him you like him...act neutral. Just be his friend first.
2006-09-03 12:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be shy in person and unsure how to act around you. Since he is talkative in IM's that is probably more of his real personality. Why not try talking to him through IM and see what happens - just tell him you notice him looking at you/flirting with you and you want to know if he likes you - because you like him. If he says no on IM then you should just move on and be friends with him.
2006-09-03 12:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you assert, it looks Ben replaced into too afraid to admit in the beginning that he shared an same thoughts as you (regularly human beings attempt this in the journey that they are afraid that a courting will damage a friendship), or perchance he felt an same way about you in the beginning, yet not in any respect realized it (boys can regularly be unbelievably sluggish like that) and after he informed you he did not like you, he ultimately realized he loved you. Or his thoughts about you've replaced. both way, I firmly trust that he likes you today. i imagine he's basically afraid that you do not experience that way about him anymore or that he thinks that he damage or indignant you via what he suggested very last summer season ... attempt to communicate over with him at school ... do not deliver it up nonetheless ... Wait, and attempt to construct on your courting with him first =^^= ~~~<333~~~
2016-12-06 08:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He surly is interested on you. but he is not a very easy person, I would just test him, i will ignore him, and speak to other boys and find one that you keep talking to and, do so if you were in love with him, If the one that you like likes you really would be Julies and is going to mention it to you, but in any case I think this guy has a serous problem.
2006-09-03 12:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by santa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just as confused. Sounds as if he likes you but this gf stuff is new to him too.
You have two choices, you can wait until he gets up the nerve or you can talk to him privately and tell him you want to go out.
2006-09-03 12:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your guy just isn't mature enough to handle thinking that his guy-friends will know he's dating you, so he flirts from afar. I'd think about telling him in IM that you totally like him and want to be with him, even if it means that only you two know and not anybody else.
2006-09-03 12:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I say be upfront with him. Besides, if it ever does turn in to a relationship, you'll have to be able to communicate. I say he likes you, but maybe doesn't know how to convey that, even though you already gave him one chance. Tell him how you feel, and if he can't handle that, then its his loss.
2006-09-03 12:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his freinds around school, ask your girlfriends if he been talkin good about you to them, ect. if not then just wait and see if the staring continues
2006-09-03 12:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody's got it bad 4 u:) flirt with him! or the big one.... ask him if he wants to go out with u. it's as easy as that.
2006-09-03 12:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋