ok i just go back from my closest friend house and we always been so curious so we mad out with each other and she kissed me on my neck and gave me this hudge hicky thing is i have a bf and i have to see him tommorow what do i do??? i need help
2006-09-03 11:55:59 · 23 answers · asked by abbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally agree with Ty Brown. Telling the truth is the best solution. Otherwise the truth would probably end up coming out in the end somewhere. Also, ALOT of guys would like threesomes, so tell him to join in next time if there is a next time. Also, did you like making out with your friend? If not, then telling him might not be as bad as you think. And don't try hiding it with a turle neck in this weather or with make up. Make up just covers it up. It don't get rid of it. Time will do that. Good luck. And don't chicken out. Just get it over with and off your shoulders. You can do it.
2006-09-03 12:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have 3 options, although only 2 would really work.
1) Avoid him like the plague until the hickey disappears (tell you you had something come up and sorry but you won't be able to see him tomorrow).
2) Wear a turtleneck (but not very practical because I doubt that you will keep wearing that the whole time.
3) Be upfront with him and tell him that you didn't mean to but you did something you shouldn't have and tell him the whole truth.
By the way, if you already have a boyfriend you shouldn't be 'curious' anymore. That would be my answer.
2006-09-03 19:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything, unless you make up a good and believable excuse about why you can't see him tomorrow so he doesn't have to see the hickey. He'll surely want to reschedule so also have a excuse to why you can't see him for the amount of time you need for that hickey to be unnoticeable. He could get suspicious too take that into account. You cheated on him none the less even if it was with another girl. Whether you want to tell him about what you did is up to you. If you do decide to tell him, you need to tell him what motivated you (experimentation) and how you're sorry and prove that through your actions if you get another chance to show him. Some other things to take into account is that he would be questioning your sexual orientation.
2006-09-03 19:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, say it was all just a bit of a laugh that got out of hand. He may be a little upset at first, but once he's thought about it will probably come round.
Its better than lying, lies have a way of coming back to haunt you.
Besides not many guys can resist the idea of 2 girls together can they :-)
2006-09-03 19:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Hippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him some of the truth, say that you planned to have a 3-some for him as a surprise for him, so you practiced with the other girl first and the other girl got into it and gave you the hickey, (you are doing it for him) make sure you arrange it with the closet dweller first, that's the least she could since she cause the problem in the first place.
2006-09-03 19:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth you made out with your closest friend and one thing led to another and it felt so good that you lost control of your actions.This happens all the time with girls trying to find out about each others emotion's.Don't fret he will understand but don't just let him join in..
2006-09-03 19:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toothpaste
2006-09-03 19:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by swim_chic07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Keep no secrets between you and a partner. Besides, he may get turned on and see you in a different light and may enhance your relationship. If nothing else you will know how open minded he really is. Good luck!
2006-09-03 19:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by kksay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, that your curiosity got the best of you. Maybe he would want to join next time, or watch. The truth is always the best solution no matter what the outcome.
2006-09-03 18:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear a turtle neck or cancel the meet/
2006-09-03 18:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by distalbicept 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋