My moms botfriend is a weirdo-sicko-pervert.He lives in Lames Texas.His name is Ben Parks.Did u no he called his girlfriends daughter and wanted to have sex with her & her mom.I think this is sick.I think my mom is now ms. sex pervert,its like she's worse than a freaken teenager.He always calls me and says after the car show wanna have sex,i say no i hang up on his ***.But if i dont answer the phone he calls,mom says phone and its him again.I have tryed to ignore him.I have told my mom how he treats me,and he keeps on.My mom thinks the sun rizes and sets on him.Witch it don't.She as my mom thinks he is a freaken angel!Witch that S.O.B. isnt.What do u think about this S}{!t?Telling my mom how i feel dont work either.I have talked to my husband he wants to beat his a$$.Btw i am not a teenager i am over 21.
2006-09-03 11:50:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i seen he put my number on here is here is his:8062011977/ .
2006-09-03 11:52:56 · update #1
so now, mom's boyfriend called this friend of my mom's,and now they have a plan to kick us out of our house,we live with my mother....
2006-09-03 13:15:40 · update #2
It is too bad your Mom can't see that this guy is no good. If you need to, you can take out a restraining order on him. It would be sad to see that happen, because of your mom, but you can't let this guy harass you like this. Keep trying to talk to your Mom about him. If she keeps on insisting that this guy is for her, you can't stop her because she is an adult. But make sure you tell her that it is hurting your relationship with her.
2006-09-03 11:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are joking or just wanting to get even with your mom/ her boyfriend, this is not a funny. This is serious. Here's the info for anyone this should happen to including you. This is a person who has molested several people already. Your mom, the other adult is being affected by poor judgment because she had been a victim of domestic violence or childhood abuse herself and not sought treatment, is on drugs or alcohol and cannot be trusted to protect you. Whatever the reason you are living there, get out, get to a shelter or better yet, call the police and have them kick him out if your mom is under the influence or if you pay part of the rent. Get an exparte order against him. When the court date comes up, make sure you appear in court. Different phone companies have policies now of sending unwanted phone calls directly to the police department. EMBARQ is one of them. Men like this think every thing is a joke but being molested is not funny and stays with you all your life. If your husband does not take a stand for you, go stay with someone who will. Your whole life is ahead of you.
2006-09-03 12:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The World is a cruel and Unbearable place at times. This seems like one of those for you.
Your mom is happy. Simply put let her be with the S.O.B.
You shouldn't try to stop her from seeing him. Shes older and has lived life more. But you can bring up to her attention that you do not feel comfortable with her boyfriend.
What you have a right to do is tell her that you want him to not call anymore. Say this is a warning. Tell her you want her to be happy in her life but mention that yours is becoming more unhappy because of his phone calls.
If you say this in a calm manner you should get the response you want. Which would be something like this, " Okay dear I'll let him know to stop calling you"
If what she says still doesn't work tell her that he is still doing it And if he does it again take Legal action. Get a restraining order or get him on a harassment charge.
Make sure to mention to your mother (in a calm tactical way) that you will get at least a restraining order on him or press harassment charges should he keep doing this. IF you mention this before you actually do it she cannot blame you for your actions.
I hope this helps you out a bit.
James
2006-09-03 12:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by dark_blue_prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thank God you're older and you're obvioiusly out of the house since you mentioned your husband.
Unfortunately, this means that it no longer involves your safety, so you'll just have to ignore him so that your mom - no matter how weird the situation is - can live her life, and be by her side when things get really bad.
If you do live with her, you must make the right judgement and move out with your own husband.
Mention to her that SHE can deal with her boyfriend, and not you, and keep both of your personal lives seperate from one another, except for mom and daughter time.
2006-09-03 12:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, I am sorry you are going through this and that you Mom doesn't take you seriously. As far as your husband beating him, that is out of the question, he will not resolved anything with fighting and maybe going to jail. If he goes to jail who will be there for you then? Your Mom has been brainwashed by this idiot. If she is acting like a teenager, she is not in a good frame of mind to listen to anyone. I would suggest to you and your hubby to at least make a police report for harassment. I would also have your husband talk to the idiot and Mom to discuss what is going on and that you both will not tolerate any longer. Explain to your hubby that if it is going to turn into a fight (if he talks to them) that you will not agree with their meeting.
From what I read it seems that you live with your Mom, if that is the case, move out with your husband, even if it is a small place.
If you don't live with them do not visit them.
There is no need for you to live with this harassment.
You might just tell your Mom also that until she gets rid of this idiot, you don't want to have contact with her.
Believe me, sooner or later, he will get rid of your Mom after he is finished using her.
I hope this has helped you a bit. God be with you and husband.
***********Please do not take this any longer**********************
If you like I can call the idiot for you and give him a piece of my mind. Believe this, I am never in shortage of words.*******e-mail me.
2006-09-03 12:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank god you can see this pervert for what he is. Sadly your Mom cant see the forest for the trees. She must be desperate for a relationship to put up with this crap. Try to control your husbands temper as it's not worth him getting into trouble over this loser. Does your Mom know about his previous attepts to have sex with his previous girlfriend and her daughter? This would surely tell her what type of loser she has hooked up with. Good luck. Maybe threaten legal action if he keeps hassling you.
2006-09-03 11:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not important how long you have been relationship your boyfriend and how long your sister has been relationship her boyfriend. Your sister is a criminal person and can have her boyfriend sleep over. you're a minor and can persist with your mom's regulations. do no longer attempt to cajole her, you will possibly in basic terms worsen her. recover from it. Your sister is older and has extra privileges. as quickly as you're older you will get the comparable privileges as your older sister. No discern might enable their minor daughter have a "sleepover" with their minor boyfriend.
2016-11-06 08:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already told your mom how you feel and she obviously is not taking it serious. She is blinded by this pig's lies. You just need to stay as far away from this man as you can. If he is saying these things to you over the phone then he may be capable of sexually assaulting you, if he sees you in person. I know you want to be around your mom, but she needs to learn for herself about this jerk. Just pray for her to open up her eyes. He may just be giving her all this special attention that she was lacking before and it's keeping her interested in him. She may think that you are over-reacting, but you are not. He's making you feel uncomfortable and that is sick and wrong. I once dated a guy like this and he winded up raping me after I broke up with him. This guy could have some serious mental issues and you don't want to risk getting hurt. Keep praying and stay far away from that pig. You will be in my prayers along with your mom. Take Care.
2006-09-03 11:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by smiles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a perv. Heres what to do. LIE.....say someone called you or you know a younger girl that he has repeadily tried to have sex with. Or find someone whos like 17 to cooperate with the story. Get him in trouble as a sex offender lol .... my moms friends huband is like that and it bothers the hell out of me but I dont really want people to know some of the things he says because I dont want it to ruin his happy home....Anyway if you did that you might actually be protecting younger girls out there! You never know. As for your mom, there IS a reason WHY she reacts the way she does. ...Dont be quick to judge until you know the reason. Maybe her confidence is low or something is wrong with her (literally)....o well good luck do it for me! LOL
2006-09-03 11:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom won't listen, then you need to move out!!! I am SERIOUS. She doesn't have the perspective and the fact that she is not believing you is a BAD sign (assuming you are trustworthy person). So, protect yourself and move out. If he follows you and keeps calling, get a restraining order! Be strong, take a defense class and stand up for yourself, ok? Be safe and knee him if he comes on to you. (pepper spray is helpful too) If your mom disowns you, then you need to find a different support group with your friends. They will support you.
2006-09-03 11:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋