There's this boy in my class his name is Kyle and we went out almost every year so i thought he really liked me and last year we went out for the whole school year and i thought it was LOVE but guess wat...he broke up with me and then was like u know i still like u right but wen i ask him out he says he don't want a gf then he goes and asks sum1 else out......does he still want me??
2006-09-03 11:47:50 · 16 answers · asked by ~>i cant hate u anymore<~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it sounds like he doesn't. Don't worry you will meet someone else...... This happens to everyone there's nothing wrong with you. You'll meet someone right for you.
2006-09-03 11:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be totally honest with you about this. You are his "back-up" girl. Maybe he still kind of likes you but if he told you that he doesn't want a gf and then asks someone else out, he is just stringing you along for when he can't find anyone else.
He hasn't told you that it's over because he KNOWS that you love him and that he can use that to get you whenever he can't find anyone else...so you are the "back-up." Get over him and walk away before he hurts you anymore. I promise you that if you stay and keep waiting for him like it seems you are now, he WILL use you, and it WILL hurt you. Walk away, let it go, and chalk it up to experience.
He will try to sweet talk you when he notices that you are "slipping away" from him...don't listen. Unless he is willing to make you his "primary" and only girl, anything else he says is bull and you shouldn't waste your time listening to it.
2006-09-03 11:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by iipiki_okami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely to commence with... you need to nevertheless be fantastically youthful... get rid of him. Im basically about 40 yrs previous and that i went via an same ingredient with my ex hubby of 16 yrs. frequently even as they say and do each and every of the right issues to maintain you stringing alongside then once you're literally mutually they say and do each and every of the incorrect issues.. on objective.. they don't seem nicely worth a even as. He ought to easily be terrified of his thoughts for you or maximum probable.. he's basically playing you want a marionette puppet. Dont allow him... you've more effective self nicely worth than that and there is someone obtainable that you're going to satisfy sometime which will take care of you actually like the princess you're. on the phone and rancid. seem deep down interior your self and sweetness "Why am I nicely worth a rattling? Who merits me and my love?" then tell your self that you're nicely worth a rattling cuz you're taking care of ppl and each person which could take care of you actual merits you and your love. no longer some participant!! good success. it receives more effective sturdy before it receives more convenient... yet this too shall pass and also you need to live on without him.
2016-12-06 08:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me. Man would prefer to do anything else that say to a woman that he doesn't like her.
He says he's busy with work, sick, not prepared for a relationship, etc. But that's not true.
He doesn't want a relantionship with YOU.
So...I'm sorry darling, but he doesn't want you anymore. Move on, get the next guy. Don't waste time after him, time that you could spend with your next great boyfriend. I'm sure you are smart and preety, and u can find a boy that truly loves you, not that imature fool that's playing with you. Value yourself, cause if u don't do it, nobody will.
Good luck honey!
2006-09-03 12:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he wants is a back up plan so that if things don't go right with the other person then he still have you to run to...trust i've been there before he just wants you for his rebound, but i'm not telling what to do I know its hard when you 'think' you care about someone so much but honey he just taking you for a ride but it's up to you if you want to get on or not, you feel what i'm sayin!?
2006-09-03 11:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this guy feels like he is to young to be tied down and wants to play the field a little.... If he says he likes you then he probobly does, but as a friend. Let him do his own thing dont do any of the running let him do that if he wants too. You will get asked out by someone else and when that happens go out and enjoy yourself have a good time, in time you might even say to yourself "what did i ever see in him". he might be the one begging you to go out with him and all you have to say is your busy washing your hair. ha ha ha....
2006-09-03 12:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by EMMA O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he does not want to date you. That is why he broke up with you. People always say, you are great but... I still want to be friends... I am not in the mood, I don't want to date... Etc. It is a way of trying to break it to the person gently.
Sorry, but he has moved on. I believe it is time for you to do so too.
2006-09-03 11:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears he doesn't like you at all. He would rather play games and manipulate your mind and your emotions. GET OVER HIM! Move on to someone who is interedted in YOU.
2006-09-03 11:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Celestian Vega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, yes it is possible that he does. Dont make it so obvious that you wnat him. Instead, play hard tog et. It really works.
2006-09-03 11:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go find somebody else his chemistry is on the low level
2006-09-03 11:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋