2006-09-03 11:39:15 · 21 answers · asked by applelamb 1 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Have your bf tell her. When I worked at Dunkin Donuts years ago an ex coworker of mine was attracted to my fiance. He would drive me to work and he would come inside with me to get a coffee. She would always run up to him with the coffee already made because she seen us pull in. She would always have a joke to tell him and of course it was ALWAYS sexual. And she would touch his arm or shoulder while she was talking to him. I told her to stop flirting with him because he's taken. She said she wasn't flirting and if he didn't like it he would tell her himself. I told her to knock it off because I wasn't comfortable with her telling him sex jokes. She said that he enjoyed hearing them and told me to chill out. Well I talked to my fiance when I got home and he said he was very uncomfortable around her and was only being nice because she was my coworker and didn't want to cause any waves at work for me. I told him what she said and he ended up telling her to back off. "That worked." She wasn't going to listen to me because she thought she had a chance, when she found out she didn't she backed off. So if your threats don't work then he has to tell her.
2006-09-03 12:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the way he's behaving makes it seem like he's flirting with other girls and it makes you uncomfortable. Cite specific examples to show him what is making you think this. If he cares about you, he'll tone it down. If he gets really defensive and angry, or ignores you, then he knows he's flirting with other girls and he's just mad that he's getting caught. If the second thing happens, you need to lose him and find a boyfriend you can trust.
2016-03-26 21:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend to do it. He should be very kind, but firm, and he can tell her that her flirting makes him uncomfortable. That he likes her as a friend, but he's with you, period. That'll stop her from ever doing it again, with any of your boyfriends....
If he does it in a way that implies that you don't know he's doing it, that will save any awkwardness between you and her, and boy will your relationship with him look solid!!!
2006-09-03 11:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by silentsam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has low self esteem issues if she has to hit on anther's boyfriend. If she does it with your bf she probably does it with others as well. Ask her outright, in front of your bf why she has to flirt with someone who is taken. And then ask her if she has a problem getting a boyfriend of her own and then wait for her answer, then take it from there, don't be confrontational about it just put it in a sincere concerned tone of voice, even if inside you are seething and want to rip her face off.
2006-09-03 11:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's your boyfriend's fault for letting it happen. He should be able to say to this girl, "I don't appreciate you flirting with me when I'm in a relationship. Please stop." Since he hasn't done this, I would seriously consider moving on from him. Any mature guy knows better to let another girl flirt with him ridiculously - and especially in front of his girlfriend.
2006-09-03 12:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her aside and tell her it is making you and your boyfriend uncomfortable, and ask her nicely to stop. If she refuses or continues to flirt with him - stand-up and punch her lights out. Then get on to your boyfriend because he didn't shut her down before then.
2006-09-03 19:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Karla R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you have been noticing her flirting with your boyfriend and that you really dont appreciate it because it make you feel bad... Dont yell at her just be calm like if you guys are friends
2006-09-03 11:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell HIM (your boyfriend) that he better tell (her the flirty girl) that he (your boyfriend) isnt interested....AND that he better tell her that he loves you and only you..infront of you..and tell him that she is wasting her time flirting..and she will stop..but he has to tell infront of you... I bet it works
2006-09-03 16:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her to stop and mayb she will stop if not hook her up with someone else
2006-09-03 11:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her right up front; Stay away from my man; or else
2006-09-03 11:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Fredrick A. Simpkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋