there's this girl that i really really like she's perfect in every way and we're really close but she see's me as more of a brother figure how can i get it to where she likes me as the type of guy she might wanna go out with?
2006-09-03 11:32:21 · 18 answers · asked by lawnboy525 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's looking at you like a brother, that's a hard one to change. Good luck though ~~
2006-09-03 11:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her are friends that is the BEST way to start a relationship. Tell her that as you have gotten to know here more that you would like to take her to dinner or dancing whatever she likes to do on a date...... then if she says: But we are friends, tell her you would like to try dating and see if there can be more between you. She may be feeling more for you also, you never know!! Good Luck.
2006-09-03 18:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by strawbarryblondee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. You never know she might feel the same about you. You shouldn't have to change yourself to get her to like you.
You saying that she's perfect and feeling for her the way you do will make her melt.
Just tell her.
Good Luck!
2006-09-03 18:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking a friend is really complicated.. just have the gutts to tell her straight out that you like her more than friends. she might be weirded out at first. but it's worth the try right? better than keeping it to yourself and just wonder about the what if's. just make sure that you won't ruin your relationship as friends. and of course, just be yourself... if she likes you then great! if she doesn't, well at least you didnt try to be someone else.
try bringing her to the movies
2006-09-03 18:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by jjjjjjjjjjjjjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant' do anything to change her feelings for you. Unless you start pressuring her or making her feel uncomfortable by trying to take it to another level. If things are ever going to turn romantic, it will happen naturally, don't push it or you will risk losing a very good friend.
2006-09-03 18:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't MaKe a girl like you.
It can't be control ed, just be yourself, that should be enough. You want her to like YOU, not a version of you. To let her know you think of her less of a sister figure, start treating her more like a girl you "like". Stare at he, then complement her smile or her outfit. things like that, good luck!!!
2006-09-03 18:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start do actives with her , ask her if she want to go to lunch with you and chat, or go see a movie, things that friends would do and gradual start doing these things more often with time and hard work friendship could blossom into something more.
2006-09-03 18:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by MYRAJEAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may you need to ask God like this ask him is this a girl i should be dating and if not don't and plus you shouldn't be date you should save your love for your spouse
2006-09-03 18:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're not her type so just be yourself don't try to be someone else just to get her to date you
2006-09-03 18:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you'd like to try dating and see her response
2006-09-03 18:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by hawaiicatlynblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋