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okay so there is this girl that i like and i can actually talk to but she has a b/f and they have been going out for 2 months. what i want to know is how can i get her to go with me? and when they break up what is a good time to wait and ask her to go out with me?

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2006-09-03 11:26:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

invite her out. if she declines, then its clear that you should wait until they break up.

2006-09-03 11:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0 0

Dude...first of all, if you're trying to "steal" her from someone else, you are already starting from a bad position, but if that's the route you want to take, here's what you do:

1. You TELL her that you are interested in her and that you know
she has a boyfriend...not in front of him obviously!!

NOTE: Be prepared to possibly catch hell from the boyfriend later because she will probably tell him that you approached her.
Just be ready for that.

2. Sit back and see what she does with the info. If she doesn't
act on it promptly, or she kind of blows you off while you are
telling her (or right after), then you are wasting your time.

Little hint though: if she told her bf, it's probably a good
indication that she is NOT interested because she KNOWS
that he will be pissed to find out that someone is trying
to "steal" his woman and she knows that he will probably want
to pound him...not a good sign for you!

Bottom line: All you can do is TELL her how you feel and be ready for whatever follows that. Her bf may want to kick your *** when he finds out, but if she's interested in you as well, the only thing you have to do is tell her.

DO NOT start trying to do things to impress her or "out-do" her boyfriend...you'll look desperate and it'll backfire on you. You need to be almost like a businessman...put the deal on the table in very clear terms and then "walk away" and let her think about it. You'll know soon enough what her answer is. And DON'T keep pestering her about an answer. If she likes you, she will tell you. If she's not feeling you, she either won't say anything, or she will tell you that too...either way, you will know.

2006-09-03 11:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by iipiki_okami 2 · 0 0

Two months is not very long but she still may be falling for this other guy. You should just be honest with her and let her know that you like her. She needs to know just in case she is thinking that you just want to be friends with her. If she's happy with this other guy then you should still be cool with her but don't continuously put down the other guy. This will just make her think that you are a hater. Depending on how much she likes this guy, she may need some time to get over him. Again, if she does break up with him, just be honest with her and ask her if you and her could hang out in the near future. She should tell you if she's comfortable with it or not. But if she tells you that she is not into you, then move on. If you don't, then you and her will probably not even end up friends. Hope this helps. Good Luck.

2006-09-03 11:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by smiles 3 · 0 0

Back off. If you spend too much time with her right now you will turn into the FRIEND. You don't want that. Put some space in the works for right now. When she dumps the guy step it up a little. get a group together and do the group thing before you bust out the one on one date.

2006-09-03 11:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mike C 5 · 0 0

Don't make any moves if she has a bf. Wait a little (one- two months) before you go ask her out. If she is in love with her boyfriend now, and you try to come in, she won't like you very much.

2006-09-03 11:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kelley K. 3 · 0 0

This girl you like has not been comitted to her guy for long so this is the time to make her realise that there is someone else for her... Try to spend as much time as you can with her.. as a friend and make sure she starts looking at you as a person who she can rely upon hopefully things might work out for you.

2006-09-03 11:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0 1

She is involved!!! and what makes you so sure that things aren't gonna work out between them? I think you should just wish her all the best in her relationship like you'd want someone else to do you. In regards to friendship, you can maintain that but I don't think it's fair for you to want to get between them. Think about this, How would you feel?

2006-09-03 11:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0 0

i dont think you should try and break another persons realtionship. Does she even like you??? What garentees you that if she breaks up with him, shes going to go for you?? i think you should try to go and find another girl that is avaliable and not get in the middle of another relationship. Remember what goes around comes around.

2006-09-03 11:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by laural8477 3 · 1 0

You need to be as a wolf: wait. If she break up,then you can go to her.Now be as a wolf:wait for the best time.Good luck.Or instead,you can find another girl.

2006-09-03 11:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0 0

ok dude i just want to say leave them alone utill they break up cuz what if u had some dude trying to get ur girl how would u feel?

2006-09-03 11:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by rm38358 1 · 1 0

get to know her as a friend and when they break up youll be her shoulder for her to cry on. then you will her yr chance to date her. read more on dating and relationships that will help you more on this site

2006-09-03 11:29:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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