Most girls I'm with really like that, but there's a girl I'm with now that I really really like but she seems afraid of it. What can I do to get her not be afraid?
2006-09-03 11:21:40 · 16 answers · asked by Andy J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(depends on the circumstances, but usually between 10" + 11") Most girls I'm with really like that, but there's a girl I'm with now that I really really like but she seems afraid of it. What can I do to get her not be afraid?
2006-09-03 11:25:06 · update #1
suck your own weenie that should convince her..
2006-09-03 11:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she's a very small girl, sex with a well-endowed guy can be painful. Talk to her about it and tell her you're willing to accommodate her so that she feels comfortable. I recommend woman-on-top position -- that way she's in control and it won't hurt.
2006-09-03 18:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Peggy M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a movie or dinner, let her feel comfortable around you, maybe even cuddle her a little. This will let her know that you aren't "extra mean" or scary.
2006-09-03 18:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kelley K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her very gently, remember only first 4 inches are important.
2006-09-03 18:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How big? (add this in the extra details section)
2006-09-03 18:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by SQRD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that "problem" also, i always tell them it won't hurt them. some times I say i will only go half way in. and after they try it they just love it.
2006-09-03 18:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
has she ever tried to have sex with you? and if not then you must be sincere with her and gentle. let her know you are caring and will be careful.she will learn not to be afraid
2006-09-03 18:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by bbw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know girls where attracted to over weight guys
2006-09-03 18:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
introduce her to you big guy and maybe after a nice "private session" maybe she would want to get a little closer to it
2006-09-03 18:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to get used to it on her own...You can't make her like it. It's something that she has to get used to on her own.
2006-09-03 18:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to do it to her? It's her nice way of saying she doesn't want to have it with you.
2006-09-03 18:24:28 · answer #11 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋