I call them all the time to see how they are doing and their families. I only live 25 min away from them but they say its to far but they will drive and hour away to go shopping.
2006-09-03 11:19:20 · 8 answers · asked by lonely sis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What upsets me most of all is that they do everything together, plan family events without asking my opinion, there friends no more about what is happening in my family than I do. It isn't because I don't try to stay in everything.
2006-09-03 11:41:26 · update #1
It sounds to me like your sisters dont value family very much. Give them some time to re-evaluate whats important to them in life and im sure sooner or later they will contact you. Unfortunately until they do there isnt really much you can do about it because you want them to want to talk to you, not for you to force them to talk to you. Good luck, sorry you're having a rough time with them. Oh and yes its perfectly normal to be mad or upset about this kind of thing.
2006-09-03 11:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by kaosvarkas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is clear that there are some problems within the family relationship with your sisters. Tell them you would like to improve your relationship with them and that you want to see what you can do to smooth things out! Try and find out if they would meet 1/2 way and go for lunch and that you would like to be closer to them. If that doesn't work then let them know that you are always willing to meet them 1/2 way and you will wait to here from them. Get busy with your friends and your own life and always be willing to make an effort but unwilling to be a door mat! Hope that helps!
Good luck!
2006-09-03 19:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all family members like to be tight knit. I like the fact that I only see my sister about once a month. We get along better and have less chance of getting on each other's nerves.
Let them enjoy themselves. Go out and have fun with your own friends and don't worry about your sisters.
2006-09-03 18:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by hfmgr06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really sad...25 minutes is not that far away... and if they have time to shop..they should have time for you...
if you are a confrontational type of person, go visit them and confront them...
if you're not...then continue always being there for them ....in the end you will come up the better person..
but ignoring them as they do will only worsen your relationship..
2006-09-03 18:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightEnigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish i could answer this truthfully but can only answer from my experience, and its alright to get a little mad at them i guess cuz i sure do mine. its same for me. i live 1 hr away and they always ask when you coming to see us. but never come see me. i have been there everytime i seen them and i call them too but no one calls back. it hurts. so feeling hurt is right but being mad hurts you more than anyone else. just love them anyways. and pray it will change someday.
2006-09-03 18:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by bbw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find good friends around your neighborhood, school, or church. Your sisters may come around once they realize what they're doing, but I wouldn't wait on them since they (most likely)wouldn't do the same for you.
2006-09-03 18:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed but i also say screw them when they come around asking for some help tell them you cant you dont have enough time
2006-09-03 18:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-07 04:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋