my best friend is a girl and so if my girl friend =/
lol. i think i like my bestfriend better then my gf but thay both keep going threw my mind constantly. i keep asking questions like "which one do i see myself with when i'm married" but thay both are equil.
i'm confused. but don't get this wrong my gf and best friend are both great
what should i do? or should i stay with my gf then if we were to break up go to my best friend or should i just keep one my best friend and my gf my gf and don't do anything.
P.S. my gf is in texas with me and my best friend is in florida. so that basicly answer the question lol. but anyways i still wanna know what you think about this. besides that one is in another state
2006-09-03 11:06:16 · 21 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for 2 of them your not married be a swinger
2006-09-03 11:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by avocadoadam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound harsh, but this is coming from a girl who was the girlfriend who's boyfriend fell for his best friend. GET OVER ONE OF THEM! Don't drag your girlfriend along for the ride if you're just going to screw her over in the end! If you choose to stay with your girlfriend, you need to stop talking to your best friend because those feelings will never go away! Consider the feelings here and the hearts you can break. If you are considering breaking up with her, just do it rather than let it keep going and developing until you hurt her. A love lost is better than never loving at all.
2006-09-03 18:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a great situation, you just don't even realize it yet. If something doesn't go right with the girl in Texas, you can always go after your best friend. Don't worry about marriage until you love someone. If you were in love with your girlfriend, you wouldn't consider marrying the girl in Florida.
2006-09-03 18:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by SQRD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you need to really think about what your heart feels because my husband and i have been married for 8 years and we started out as bestfriends for 4 and a half years before we even started dating. he told me how he felt and it did freak me out a little but a couple of months later i realized i felt the same way and here we are 8 years later happier than ever! so good luck in whatever you decide sweetie!
2006-09-03 18:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. I would say wait a while, and sort it out. If you're happy, stay happy. If not, then you know what to do. It would probably be a good idea to get an idea of how your best friend feels before you say anything to her about wanting to be more than friends.
2006-09-03 18:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Awesomeness!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with your gf shes closer and she would be heartbroken if you broke up with her you should just be really good friends with your friend but nothing more she probly only likes you as a friend anyways. Long distance realationships NEVER work out!!!!
Good luck
2006-09-03 18:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Meagan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW.....well....who do u think about more? your gf or your best friend? Does ru friend knwo u like her? You should follow your heart and do whats right......i know it sounds fruity, but it can help a lot to follow your heart, what does ur heart say? Do u want to be with ur gf now or ur best friend? Your choice....hoep you make the right choice!
2006-09-03 18:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Vietnam_sweeite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should stay with you girlfriend because say you do break up with her for you best friend then you and your best friend break up you will never have the same thing with her again......get what im saying i think you should just stay with your girlfriend for right now since you say that they are equaly kewl....and then maybe if and when you break up with your girlfriend and you still have feelings for you best friend then ask her out.......
2006-09-03 18:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if these women are friends also then you will end up losing them both by trying to come between them. If they are not friends then break up with the one and date the other. Just be honest and don't hurt anyone more than you need to.
2006-09-03 18:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay with your girlfriend for a little while longer but if you keep thinking about your best friend than you should probably dump your girlfriend and ask your bestfriend out
2006-09-03 18:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by porkellasdad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋