I'm 23 y.o. and recently I've found out that the man that I'm interested in shares the same feelings for (about?) me. The problem is that he is 13 years older, he is very ambitious, has a demending job and travels often, and I am just a student... so I'm not sure if i should enter into this relationship...I can't even imagine what would it be like. Did anyone have any similar experience? What would you advise to me?
2006-09-03 10:49:49 · 22 answers · asked by peach_pu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see a problem with the ages but if I was you I would finish school first. good luck!
2006-09-03 10:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by SweetPea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 27 and dating a man that is 16 years older than me and he is the best boyfriend I have ever had, he knows how to treat a woman, and I have had my share of guys my age or around and they dont have nothing on my man, I say if you want to be treated right go for it
2006-09-03 10:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 10 years older than my wife and we started dating when she was 24. It was the same for us. We always were off and on and didn't know where it was going. We finally decided to give it a total go about 4 years ago and we got married. Things are great!
I too had a business and was very ambitious. I've learned how to tone it down though and relax and things are great. Talk to him though about your fears. Good luck!
2006-09-03 10:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is 23, she will be married 1 year on the 10th (of sept) and her husband is 12 years older. And their daughter is 4 months old. And they just bought a house.
you will know if he's the right one.. and if he is.. then throw the age issue aside... just make sure to accomplish everything you want including school.
2006-09-03 11:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by cougardame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it, but make sure he's into you for the right reasons... or the wrong ones if that what you're looking for as well. I don't see anything wrong with dating an older man, as long as you get along, there's nothing to worry about.
Good Luck
2006-09-03 10:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, l think you already know the answer. Age may not be the factor, more his demanding work. You are young, so my advice is keep having fun and dont stress over this guy.
2006-09-03 11:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i been there done that i was 16 and with a 36 year old and before i was 17 we where married and living together girl do what your heart tell you to do remember to finsh school and age is just a # whats inside thats counts
2006-09-03 10:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by billie0059 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're sixteen years and your lady pal is only 13. you have a purely distinction between 3 years so i don't element so as that there could aroused any project between you. you're slightly older than her so please supply her some circumstances to thinking approximately you.
2016-10-01 06:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by whiteford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is 10 years older than me
this is how the good and long lasting relations start
no need to say finish the school first ... i am sure you r not that stupid to get involved in a relation and mess up you life
2006-09-03 10:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself I say if you love him and he feels the same about you. If he stays in touch with you and is honest. go for it! Age should not be an issue
2006-09-03 10:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋