do you think that it is right for a father to have sex with his daughter as a means of control or as part of parenthood. what would you do if you found out somone was doing this to a family member, friend etc.
2006-09-03 10:33:27 · 44 answers · asked by dark rockchick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
reason fo rthis question-i have heard several men say that they want to be there daughters first sexual experience, i dont agree with this practice
2006-09-03 11:13:28 · update #1
Wow, thats no way to gain control over your child and its no part of parenthood. A father who is doing something like this with his daughter as a part of being a father and a way to gain control then he needs serious help. and if the mother knows this is going on and doesnt do anything to get him out of the house then she needs help to. Any wife who allows her husband to do that with her daughter is ignoring the fact that her husband is pleasuring himself with his child and obviously she isnt pleasuring him the right way. This isnt a matter of pleasure though the father of that child should get some help because thats not the right thing to do. I would definitley tell someone about that maybe my parent or someone from his/or family and find a way to get that man some help.
2006-09-03 10:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sw3ettyyyy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is a serious question, there is definitely a problem. Parents should never under NO circumstances have sex whit their children. How can anyone think that this can be justified in any way?? If someone hears about a thing like this they should go and tell someone they trust, someone who would be able to help. Ma-by a minister or police man, anyone. JUST DON'T KEEP QUITE!! Their is so many cases where people get away whit this just because no one will open their mouths.
2006-09-03 11:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no. By no means.
I'd try to have a talk with the child.
Ethics say no harm before good.
If there's a confirmation of abuse, depending on the case and the relation you have to this person, actions could range from an anonymous letter to the parent to a direct confrontation or a report to a children protection organization.
2006-09-03 10:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by torkato 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA....ok on this one darlin...yeah there is a problem....A father is NEVER NEVER supposed to sleep with his daughter. Yes he is supposed to be kinf of like a security blanket for her but come on now......That girl needs to go to the police because i am sure she is a minor? I assume so but you didn't say, but it has probably been going on for a long time now and That is statutory Rape. he will do time in prison. So she wouldn't even have to worry about him hurting her for telling anyone. I don't know if the person you are asking about is you, a friend, or a family member but whatever the case may be, since, you know about it, you have a responsibility to help her. That is why we have laws, to protect our kids from sicko's like that.
2006-09-03 10:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by anadaaki244 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
Of course that isn't right at all! Nobody in their right state of mind would ever think that it is. You need to go to the police or another adult that you trust and report it. That "father" doesn't love that child at all. That "father" is a sick perverted "man" who needs plenty of help. The daughter will need therapy. Do NOT let this go without telling someone. Talk to a counselor at school. Get help NOW!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 11:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by ******* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sick and needs to be reported immediately. Not to hurt the guy so called father but to get him treated right away. I can not write here what I would do if I found out.. But he will never do that any more after my session.
No one have the right to destroy a child's life for any reason.
2006-09-03 10:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by The Turk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you expect a serious answer to THAT question? It is NEVER right for a father to abuse his daughter. That will only scar her FOR LIFE. Yes, call the police immediately if you find out that something like that is happening.
2006-09-03 10:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Checked your 360, you are a smart women, you know as well as the rest of us this is wrong all the way around.Where i live we have caves and big holes in the ground for people that would get caught doing just this sort of thing. Most time buried alive is the rule of the day!Hope this answers your question.
2006-09-03 11:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by matt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! I think it's wrong! I don't really know what I would do though, just because he's the father and unless you'd want him to go to jail, pratically nothing! Maybe tell your parents, or the other parents wife. Or the cops would be a good person to tell. Hope that helps a little bit
2006-09-03 10:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Hope 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it isn't right morally, ethically, or legally. If it is happening to you tell someone at school because they will be able to make sure you are safe once you tell someone. Your not safe if you tell someone and your father finds out and then they leave you alone with him. If it is someone you know you have to be careful how you approach it if you tell someone your friend will blame you but it is the right thing to do, if you don't want to be at ends with your friend then you should try to convince her to tell someone. Either way you should call a crisis hotline and talk to someone about it. It is important to at least talk to someone about it.
2006-09-03 10:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋