how do i know he loves me?

Question

we've known each other for a long time and we've been together for 1 month. he told me he loves me but does he really mean it.

Answer 1

Your heart knows the answer to this question if you can only stop and listern to it. If you can't hear it, time will tell. Does he treat you with respect? Do you find him smiling at you for no reason? Have you asked him? Or is the question you should be asking is how you feel about him?

Answer 2

we can't tell you that. It is possible since you have known each other for so long, but only you can tell if he really means it. Take some time to really think about it. How does he treat you, what does he sound like when he says it, does he look into your eyes, is he just trying to get sex, how old is he...does he know what love is... Many things to think over.

Answer 3

Look in his eyes. If he looks at you and you can see that he loves you, that's all you need. He needs to look at you as if he were opening a present that only he can have. You should be something that he cherishes everyday. (By the way, a month is too short of a time to tell someone that you love them and mean it. It doesn't matter how long you've known eachother)

Answer 4

if its only been a month, it might not be true because love needs longer time to actually begin to feel that he loves u. 1 month is too short of time to get feelings for each other. u might have feelings for each other now but are they true feelings? what will happen after many months later? u should wait longer to understand how he feels about u and how u feel about him

Answer 5

Generally you should be able to feel it, because as a woman, you should have some kind of instinct or intuition. Personally, I think if you're asking this question, then something's not right with the picture. You should observe his actions and analyze his words more carefully. Ask yourself why you're asking this question, because you should've felt his love already.

Answer 6

Not after a month...Sounds like he's interested in something besides real love.Real love is when he wants to be with you just to spend time with you - not get in your pants (sorry I don't mean to be crude)
Give it some time and see how you feel about him in 6 months.

Answer 7

if u know each other for a long time then he knows u well and if he told u he loves u i am guess ing he does. and if u also love him tell him b4 he thinks that he said it too soon and doesnt have the guts to say it again. best of luck

Answer 8

dont trust a man. or maybe he does love u u can tell by the way he treats you. and if he really loves u do some tests on him test him out but puttin ur friends on the phone or do suttin to see if hes gonna try to talk to another women so that way ull know wetyer he really loves u

Answer 9

well thats the hard part you don't know if he does. you should just try to give it time or maybe leave him if it's hard to tell you'll probly get your heart broken but the best way id to just get it time. Or maybe even try to make him jealous so then he'll be all over you and love you more if your getting along with some guys!

Answer 10

If you don't know and don't trust he's being honest then your in for trouble. Some women are so insecure they constantly want prove someone loves them and they wear the guy out and he takes off.

Don't be high maintenance. You either trust him or you dont'. If he's lying dump him, if he's being honest, lighten up and enjoy!