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Guys HELP could you help me out im very confused and need clarity pls?
I met this guy a couple of mnts ago we were a little drunk he though i was very attracticve we talked he went home. Then i saw him out and he came up to me and said i ws very attractive one night and that was it. Then another night he walked me home to my door had a cup of tea and left. I was in town in the other day and he saw me and we both starred at each other. i am very attracive to him i have to say. I saw him out last night he came up to me and went back to his flat and we slept together using protection of course. the sex was fantastic we had a bath first and then carried on all night. I had mutiple orgasms.today he had to go to work so dropped me of yet he did not ask for my number..IS IT true to say if he really liked me he would have asked? I left my wallet at his flat he dropped it through the letter box although he knew my car was outside and i was in...is he avoiding me. I really like him and want to let him know but i dont have his phone number what do ni do????
2006-09-03 10:07:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry chick you just got played..
2006-09-03 10:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by SweetPea 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have read this and the one answer from Harley is incorrect she wants to know why you said "u were attractive 3 times" but you didn't say that ~ some people don't read things clearly! you said HE said you were attractive twice and you said you're ATTRACTED to HIM. Anyway I don't think you was a one night stand, men have fragile ego's so could be multitude of reasons why he never asked for your phone number BUT important thing is life is too short to stress over one man when the world is full of billions of men. you deserve better but as they say you live and learn so next time take it slow and make sure you know a lot more about the man you sleep with but just enjoy the fact that you had a great sex session and think of it as "his loss" woman get this all the time, we've all been there. In time you'll forget it ever happened. Don't waste time stressing over him even if he made contact now he disrespected you so if you respect yourself you would not give him a second chance HOW reliable is he??? wish you all the best and let it go ...
2006-09-03 18:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by demi j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sry 2 say but it sounds lik u were a 1 nightstand girl & there isnt much u can do but wait. He may think u r pretty 2 sleep with but that is it. I feel bad 4 u I have 2 say but he may have just told u these things just 2 get a little action. Then there is the ever pop. MOVE ON!!!
2006-09-03 17:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by shanelle045 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be avoiding you, but then again he could be just as confused, his emotions and feeling could be all over the place. To sort it out, try looking him up in the phone book and calling him or going to see him and sort it out. If he is ex- directory go the places you saw him most and maybe you will see him again. When he gave you back your purse he might just have been in a hurry, just try to find him and talk it through. You obviously care for him and yes, you might get hurt but it is better to know isnt it?
2006-09-03 17:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by ATB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really liked u ( liked as in wanted to pursue a relationship) he would of made a point to see u when he returned ur wallet. Maybe he has a girlfriend and thats why he chose not to take things further. Just move on with life, if he cares he'll come around.
2006-09-03 17:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be affraid if if he didn't ask for your number, be affraid if he didn't return your wallet. maybe he's having a slight case of "buyer's remorse" or he has another girlfriend and had a fling with you? Do you sleep with everyone who says you are attactive? Maybe he thought you were sleeping when he dropped your wallet in and didn't want to bother you or he was in a rush and didn't have time to chat? I would have been exstatic to get my wallet back if I was sleeping at someone else's house.
2006-09-03 17:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she coppied this from some book. Made up crap. 2 points. If it is real dump the looser he's just boning you for a good time and doesn't really love you. Move on.
2006-09-03 17:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a one night stand. Men like to chase. Once they catch their prey... they devour it. Then they prepare for the next hunt. Of course not all men are like that, just immature ones. Just ask him straight what he wants. Thats my way, but some men find it hard to be honest... Good luck
2006-09-04 10:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by camilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry babes but I think he used your for a night of passion or two and has no interest in a relationship. Best way to look at is is that you got your orgasms - so it wasnt a total loss, but forget about him - and maybe try being a bit more reserved in shagging guys too soon in future.
2006-09-04 04:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just got played sweetheart! u just gave him a one nite stand! u shudnt let go of these things so easily first give em a lil taste so they come back for more and then u try to have a relationship but yea u kinda just proved of u being a ho!
2006-09-03 17:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just go to the places you met him at before and if he's there say " you forgot my number."
You can give him your number and stay or judge how he reacts and walk away if he's not interested.
He's had his fun, move on honey and save yourself for some-one more worthy of you.
God bless.....x
2006-09-03 17:49:25 · answer #11 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋