Okay,
So there is this guy I have a major crush on right. we are young so we say we are "going out" even though we dont really go places. we talk and hang out but it is kinda like i do with my guy friends. how can i get him to really like me like me and wanna hold my hand and stuff. PLEASE HELP
2006-09-03 09:54:25 · 17 answers · asked by abs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
crush his skull
2006-09-03 09:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anybody really like you. You can find out if he is attracted to you though. When you talk to him, find something nice about him and complement him on it. If responds by continuing the conversation or talking to you more than the others then you have a pretty good idea that he does like you. Move close to him and brush your hand against him as if it were an accident and apologise with a coy smile. Make eye contact when there is a conversation and not necessarily between the two of you. When you do make eye contact look away with a smile.
I hope this works for you. Good luck.
Just remember if it dosnt, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-09-03 17:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an occation, buy him some useful stuff n present him. Dont buy cute teddy bears. He might throw it to the corner of his room after you are gone. Make sure you never looked more beautiful than the day you do this. Use the occassion to intimate him that you are attracted to him. think of some means by which you can indirectly pass the information if you are scared to directly admit it. Good luck lemme know if it worked.
2006-09-03 17:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might start by just grabbing his hand in the hall and holding it. He might already like you, but don't know how to act. You are still young, so take it slow and do not rush into anything, there is still plenty of time for that in your life later on... just have fun, and don't get hurt...
2006-09-03 16:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm depends how old u are. i think maybe u should go on a group date first, with some of his friends, some of yours, and u sit next to him. usually guys are pretty shy, and prefer if u make the first move. just reach for his hand and hold it. =)
2006-09-03 16:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just inivte him over to your house. Just hold his hand when you're together. Just try to develop a much more personal relationship with him and if he doesn't like it, then go for someone new.
2006-09-03 17:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dont u kno that u askin the same ? as u r? He can b shy lik u r 2 make a "move."
Y dont u try holdin his hand & see wat he says or does. U can make it seems lik a accident. Or u can just ask him if he wants 2 hold ur hands.
2006-09-03 17:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by shanelle045 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go somewhere on a date, and try to hold his hand and see what he does.
2006-09-03 16:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to hold his hand? Ask him if he wants to go somewhere alone, as a date...
2006-09-03 16:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by n545ck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww puppy love! if hez not makin anymove then u go head and make move and if he avoidz dat then i guess he just wants to hang around and not be like in a relationship i guess.
2006-09-03 16:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just grab his hand and say is it cool to hold your hand and just be very open to him about being around him be open to how you feel and then go from there
2006-09-03 16:57:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋