I couldn't imagine what it must be like in your shoes, but I know I'm always looking at you pretty ladies and 99% of the time there is at least one other guy looking too.........do you like this or is it too much at times?
2006-09-03 09:49:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is way too much at times. I was honestly talking to my friend about it yesterday because we went shopping and it seemed that every time I passed a guy they were giving me the pervert look or turning around to look at my behind like I could not see them doing it. it is offensive and thank you for realizing that.
2006-09-03 09:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, guys deal with the same thing, just a little less exagerated most of the time. I work at a gym during the week and a club on the weekend nights, and the other guys and I get stared at all the time. It can be off-puting occasionally, but most of it depends on what the person looking at you looks like. Getting flattered by another attractive person makes you feel good, even if you sometimes act like it doesn't. You just have to brush off the creeps and take the looks for what they are; a conformation that you are doing something right, and others like what they see of you.
2006-09-03 17:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by askofdover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference in looking at a woman and staring to a point that it makes them uncomfortable.When I was single I checked out guys..and some I even stared at,but if you are like taking it to extremes then it could be a bad situation.But No to me it lets me know that even though I am not single that I still look good..even packing a 3 year old on my hip..
2006-09-03 16:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by crazyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do look too much. Particularly at the chest zone. Its annoying but over the years you just learn to deal with it.
Poor instictual hormone driven guys, I really feel sorry for ya at times. You let us walk all over you for so little in return.
2006-09-03 16:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by blandnamenotworthremembering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's flattering but also embarrassing. sometimes I feel like I have something sticking out of my hair that everyone is looking at. Especially when women look to. overall, I try to see it as flattering. The older I get, (I'm 40 now) the more it's nice to know I still have something to look AT.
2006-09-03 16:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I get extremely self concious when men stare for longer than a second or two. Makes me wonder if I have something hanging out of my nose....but if you do it while I'm drinking, I have the courage to tell you "Take a picture--it will last longer!!"
2006-09-03 16:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't really look at me much. I don't mind being looked at as long as he's not being perverted about it or trying to get me to sleep with him.
Shoot, my boyfriend looks at other women far more than he looks at me. To him, I'm pretty and beautiful, but other women are "HOT!"
2006-09-03 16:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like attention but sometimes wen its too much i just wanna get outta there! thatz why im lookin 4 a real guy to stick wit!
2006-09-03 17:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind being looked at by guys as long as they don't try to touch me I don't have a problem.
2006-09-03 16:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i don't see you looking then fine, but when I'm with my husband and guys are looking like crazy that's so rude !!!
2006-09-03 16:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by dechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋