i dont want to contact him,but the urge is strong,what should i do?
what all can i do to distract myself? how can make myself feel complete and happy??
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2006-09-03 09:15:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did u break up? If that reason is sound u should have no problem to distract yourself. U can't be attracted to a bad guy . isn' it?t
2006-09-03 09:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan your future career path (what do you want to do with your life), get a job (or a moonlighting job), volunteer at a local hospital. In other words, keep yourself so busy that you're exhausted by the end of the day and too tired to be tempted into calling him. You broke up for a reason, girl, don't go backwards in life.
2006-09-03 16:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a man to make you feel complete and to be happy you make you feel complete and happy so go out do somthing you never done befor like go to a party or a movie with the people that make you feel good
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2006-09-03 16:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by shasha2992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont get in touch with him. Surround yourself by friends, they will help you remember why you dumped him in the first place and will stop you from calling him. Failing that watch a film or read a book.
2006-09-03 16:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing about the thing that happened. And use high lvl english , so you would need to think about the words and go through dictionaries. Then go and eat some ice-cream when your done.
2006-09-03 16:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by remove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with your friends more and go shopping and meet new people. however, since u have the urge to contact him, dont do it, it'll make u desperate for him again. think about other things, hang out and keep in touch with friends and hang out with other guys, that'll make u feel more comfortable without him around
2006-09-03 16:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly,by now you must be over him,I'm sure your decision to end it with him was well thought out and final. No one would be so cruel to say that kind of thing to another to be hurtful. So go ,go now and start your new life!
2006-09-03 16:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks when you break-up with someone. it's kind of nice to have someone around. enjoy yourself by doing things that you like, it's always helped me. don't turn to drinking to solve all of your problems, most people do and then you see them years later and there life has turned to crap. if there is a way to resolve your problems, hell give it another try. know that you put forth the effort.
2006-09-03 16:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by KORD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure that out and i have a few more unsolved mysteries for you....
but the answer is simply time sweetheart. just by reading your question...you'll probably hook back up.
i'd call your best friend or any friend and try to hang out with them as much as possible.
2006-09-03 16:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Grant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to talk to him about something, talk. He might not be happy with it, and if he says he doesn't want to talk right now you should respect his wishes.
It's better to work things out than keep them bottled up inside.
2006-09-03 16:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by n545ck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋