I am nice and friendly but I can't seem to meet guys.I don't know what to say, I know I should be myself, but then he might think I'm crazy. I have never had a boyfriend before, but I have my ideal of a good boyfriend. He has to be nice, respectful, honest, and have a good sense of humor. Please tell me what I should and should not do.
2006-09-03 09:07:21 · 13 answers · asked by ericaofgordon 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a 19 year old college student
2006-09-03 09:16:38 · update #1
you are right about being yourself. don't worry about "crazy," what's wrong w/ that? think of some comedians or whatever of tv, def. they could be thought of as a little crazy, that's what makes them so likeable, charismatic, and interesting.
worst thing you can do is try to be like someone else, or tone down your personality. then he isn't really getting to know you, but an image of yourself that is false.
as far as where to meet boys, i don't know how old you are but if you are in high school or even college, i'd say join any clubs you are interested in. good luck.
2006-09-03 09:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on what you want to do with guys. Are you interested in just dating, long term relationship or marriage?
For marriage you need to be very selective.
Get involved with some kind of club that you can really get into. You might meet a guy into the same thing.
2006-09-03 16:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by devotionalservice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop thinking its something wrong with you, because its not. Second, when you stop looking and focus on you one will come to you. Just enjoy being single for now, because when you finally get a boyfriend its going to be hard work to maintain a relationship, work, and school if you are doing all these things at that time.
2006-09-03 16:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I did, and THIS really worked for me : So here's what I did : I was a little chubby, so I lost some weight (you probably arent lol :)), I waxed my eyebrows, and I wore makeup. And pretty much I have been asked out many times. The thing I need to learn is how to answeer when a cute guy asks me out!
2006-09-03 16:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"How do I get a boyfriend?"
I don't know that YOU get him...
I believe you let him have his choice about who he likes...
"..but I have my ideal of a good boyfriend. He has to be nice, respectful, honest, and have a good sense of humor..."
Looks like you'll know it when he show up!!
(I believe that there's more on that list, too)
"Please tell me what I should and should not do."
Nope! Don't like tellin' others what to do...
so here's what I don't like
overbearing
inconsiderate
bossy
"the encyclopedia of the universe"
etc. etc. etc. etc.
So here is what I do like
know themselves and
are real
nice
empathy
caring
helpful
etc, etc, etc.
My list doesn't have many names on it either, I does have some tho,
here is 2 of them
Hope (for, among other things, a better future than now + a way there;)
Faith (in themselves particular about who to share their lives with)
I believe if you keep being yourself - then you'll know who likes you!
(if not, then which actress job do you want to have - different role attract different types of men. er, ah, um, don't they?)
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2006-09-03 17:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a bit CHUBBY, then the FIRST thing to do is LOSE some kilos. Guyz may really LIKE you but are TURNED OFF by extra weight, ESPECIALLY, around you TUMMY regions. Take GOOD CARE of yourself and someone who takes care of themselves will take care of you.
2006-09-05 17:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Artur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sense of humor
Don't be shy
Sounds sad but we guys love attention, if we're talking about cars or something, just agree. Later on you can tell them that you hate cars hehe.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-03 16:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by fierce_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shy, be outgoing, be nice and jsut be yourself...don't worry, I'm sure you'll meet your prince charming soon enough.
2006-09-03 16:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Vietnam_sweeite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your doing it. you might suggest to one of your friend that you go somewhere together (not really a date) maybe to sport game movie pizza. this will give a better chance to talk
2006-09-03 16:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by lobo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here you go. jsut be yourself and be confident in yourself. if they dont like you for you then you dont need them anyway. and dont jsut settle for anyone get one that likes you for you and makes you happy. there is someone out there for you and you will find him. cuz everyone has someone special out there for them. i know that it sucks having to wait but it will work out in the end and you will be happy. but remeber be yourself and dont jsut settle for anyone. good luck
2006-09-03 16:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by daddyslilgirl12385 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋