This question is for those who are trying to be happily married or become happily married. That is why I did not put under dating or divorce. I'm not looking for cheap answers if at all possible.
2006-09-03 08:53:37 · 10 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well I think the proving of love to one another should have taken place during the ceremony with the words being spoken of "I DO"...
A couple can build their love in many ways... it is something that doesnt just stop at one capacity, that over the years needs to be nourished so that it will grow.
They need to be there for one another, showing support of one another in good times and bad
With the realization that upon the sanctity of their union they became 1 and are no longer 2, and need to think in this capacity that whatever they do or don't do, affects the other.
They need to take time to celebrate their love on a regular basis, they need to build one another up in ego, in spirit and encouragement of leading healthy lives that are productive and with a purpose.
They should practice their religion together, be it bible study, church and all activities associated with that...
They should support one another financially, mentally and physically... and they should celebrate their love in the physical sense as often as possible..
They should spend as much time together as possible widening their horizons in the areas they have in common.. but yet they also need to allow the other to maintain their own space and interests as to accept the other for their own individualness as accepting who someone is on their own is loving them for whom they are on their own as well as while with you.
And they should encourage the other to be the best that that person can possibly be.. and motivate them to do what it takes in order to do so.
They should never speak in anger to one another.. and learn to disagree to disagree, but also to make compromises and sacrifices when it comes to the other happiness... all in all an act of selflessness....
I think i wrote enough, and hope the edit makes it in there.
2006-09-03 09:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by someone s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not "proved" by anything material. It is the accumulation of many small acts that show you care, you will support each other, you will be there for each other. It is going grocery shopping together on Saturday even when you don't want to, or letting her stay home while you walk the dog so she can have a break.
2006-09-04 12:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by jmo7777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe honesty is # 1. Take life day by day. do things for each other. Maybe if your the man and you come home and your wife has had a hard day and cooked you dinner make her a drink and offer to do the dishes trust me she will appreciate it. Support each other even when things get bad. Just love each other, you dont have to try and prove it just show it.
2006-09-05 23:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Showing your love to your mate isn't preforming grand jestures..
It's in the little things, ignoring the weird click he makes when he chews gum, not noticing when she is too tired and doesn't shave her legs before bed, acknowledging the little things (a meal well made, a pair of underwear placed in the hamper instead of on the bathroom floor)...
While occassional grand jestures are nice, love is built on the foundation of everyday kindnesses and compassions...
2006-09-03 10:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you both must be loyal, trusting. You must always respect one another. Don't take your spouse for granted and the both of you need to be your own person. You need to always be there for one another. Marriage is not easy and you must work at it. You need to want to know what your partner is thinking and how he or she feels about something. I think the big part of marriages ending is lack of communication and not understanding on another.
2006-09-03 09:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always stay honest, listen, never take them for granted. be sponteanous......watch the sun come up? buy a thinking of you card every now and then, go for dinner, join a sport or club together.
2006-09-03 09:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 07:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoudln't have to prove your love to your partner. You should show it everyday through consideration and respect for your partner, because usually if you love someone it shows.
2006-09-03 09:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are honest and trustworthy to your partner that is the best display of your love for that person.
2006-09-03 09:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by gwencristel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and communicate
2006-09-03 12:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by la_dutchie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋