2006-09-03 08:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by dixie_791 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my story - I was 19, she was 14, we fell in love, dated for a year, (never had sex), then went our separate ways. Now I'm 49, she'll be 44 soon. Both of us married other people, did'nt work out. We got back together last sep, getting married in 3 weeks, never been happier. Your call
2006-09-03 08:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by mxzptlk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a pretty common occurrence for a 15 year old to have a crush on a 20 year old. However, it's not really a realistic relationship.
15 year olds and 20 year olds want different things from a relationship for one thing.
For another thing there is a big difference in maturity level.
And finally, it's illegal anyway.
2006-09-03 08:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like telling people they have a right to "feel" how ever they want to feel it's their actions that they have to control. I don't think a 20 year old and 15 year old is a good idea. I'd wait at least 3 years.
You can like the 20 year old all you want, but it's not a good idea to get involved at this point in your life.
Rod
2006-09-03 08:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly like my best friends situation. He's 20, and his Fiance is 15. I think it is very possible, especially if the 15 year old is mature. And i know both of them very well, and they've been in love since the day they met. I think it could easily work. Age, sometimes, may be a factor in a relationship. But from knowing these 2, I'd say they've beaten all the odds.
And to everyone saying its illegal? You honestly think that she'd tell the cops that they had sex if she consented to it?.. If she loves him, she wouldn't be stupid to bring police into it, and if shes mature and things go bad, then she wouldn't bring police into it
2006-09-03 08:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the 15 year old needs to forget about the 20 year old and date people their own age. Not only will they have nothing in common, it's illegal in most states. Kids under 18 aren't called 'Jail-bait' for nothing.
2006-09-03 08:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy_Fir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking is OK but dating or anything else spells jail time for the 20 year old. So be careful.
2006-09-03 08:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fine just dont have sex till your 18 or you can cause alot of probs for the 20 year old.
2006-09-03 08:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by BElow froSTy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every one has crushes, but I don't think it is wise to take it any farther than that. There may not be that many years between you but the difference is huge.
2006-09-03 08:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by kidrock_fan003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like = ok by me
sexual activity w/ 15-year-old = illegal
2006-09-03 08:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm:bad idea in my book
unless its just like,you love a famous person,
cuz thatll never happen
but if were talking neighbor,friend=not right
2006-09-03 08:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ashleigh(: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋