we've gone out 3 times -- weve talked for several weeks. we're both early 30s.
she tells me today -- hours before we are going to a picnic dinner tonight with a small group of my friends (6 couples) that she's keeping her profile in the personals active and talking to a couple of guys.
she says: I'm not saying that I don't want to see you again. I do still want to spend time with you.
i asked anyone interesting she's talked to? she says too early to tell.
Ok ladies -- whats the message here. is she saying she needs more wooing? how would you react today?
2006-09-03 08:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by questioningminds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you've only gone out 3 times and you didn't say that you're going to dating exclusively. Why don't you date other people as well?
2006-09-03 08:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a nut shell: sounds like she's not sure.
It is a good sign that she's still involved in the courtship with you. Unfortunately maybe she's still not able to get a "vibe" or "feeling yet". Another positive is that she is being honest and upfront about seeing other people. (I know at the time it didn't seem like it and even now you may disrupted a bit because of the fact--don't allow yourself to be distracted.)
At this point you can make a decision: do you fight for this woman or do you stop now. The important thing to not go at this half hearted. Everything in life is a gamble--so yes--you may not walk away with the prize at the end.
I know myself and in the end I'd be kicking myself in the butt for not giving it 100% and wondering what if.
So the question is back to you at this point is she worth the time and energy?
Yes you need to win her over---in response to your "wooing" question---she'll always need "wooing" even if y'all end up married and together forever. (smile)
2006-09-03 15:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by bluemidnightbeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lucky it worked like this.From her meeting a lot of other guys,you get to ask her what are some of the different things other guys do with her ,Don't worry she is going to tell you about the good parts so now you have a pr oven starting point,Good Luck
2006-09-03 15:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sideny J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ya'll are just dating. this is the classic defination of it. u had three dates and ya'll talk a lot. but thats it. theres no commitment and its too early to be exclusive so just chill, take her out some more, and show her why she doesnt need another guy in her life but dont rush her.
2006-09-03 15:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not really sure on how she feels about you. She is still searching . She is not ready for a serious relationship ship yet. If you like and care about her , be patient, but if she continues to do as she is doing , forget her, she is a player..
2006-09-03 15:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready to commit. She wants to keep her options open. She's not dumping you, but she's not ready to keep you either.
2006-09-03 15:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you are repeating this question again ..
listen man
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2006-09-03 15:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Red Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you met her on the net or if she is placing herself in the classifieds on the net--T-R-O-U-B-L-E
2006-09-03 15:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by keepingthefaith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which religion is truth
2006-09-03 15:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by nameena n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋