2006-09-03 08:12:14 · 15 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If he acts like one
2006-09-03 08:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by NickyO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 2 of the last 3 guys I met were losers, and here's why:
Dude 1 had a minimum wage job, was 40 and lived like a college student (no phone, no car, renting a room), and he lied.
Dude 2 was unemployed due to a broken foot, no car OR license, was separated for 2 weeks before I met him and wined about how lonely he was.
2006-09-03 16:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Loser is anyone who tries to hard to be something they are not, and someone who is scared to be who he wants to be.
So a loser, can be that shy kid, no one talks to, because he's too scared, or timid to stand up for his own beliefs, and accept judgement that shouldn't even be there. And feel no fear of weither or not he's accepted or not.
And a loser is a guy who passed judgement on others, and over judgement on himself.
A Winner, is osmeone who believes in himself, and openly accepts others, into and out of his life, without being power hungry, and without being afraid. Someone who stands up straight when making a decision, and expresses love, without fear of embarrasment. He can be somewhat shy about feelings, and he can be a little prominate about his 'maleness'.
Those attitudes alone, change everything you are, from how you do in school, to how you do in sports. or how you can talk to a female, and make friends.
You can be the biggest gamer, or the best sports player, you can be a regular joe, or a vice president, the attitude is what makes a female attracted to you.
Always try to advance in life, never settle for anything less than your dreams, but allow people into your life, and you'll be a happy perosn.
Never give a damn, about what people think, they judge you because they are insecure about themselves, jealousy, that means, you're doing something right, not wrong. Thats a huge thumbs up, for a male who can feel fulfilled. NEver pass judgement.
2006-09-03 15:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually because the guy acts like a loser.
2006-09-06 04:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would make me think a guy is a loser if he is lazy.laziness can really destroy.i don't agree with the answers that mentioned not having a job and other material things.what i need from a guy is trust,love,he must hardworking and must do everything he can do to make his life better.A man without ambition is nothing but a piece of furniture.(sorry for being harsh on some men but it is true).
2006-09-03 15:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by tofmizzy2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a girl thinks a guy becomes a loser by his action!
2006-09-03 15:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl and her tastes. For me( I'm 15 but later) would be if he still lived with his mom, hates others just becasue they are differnt or,& has different beliefs style etc, is very fake and snobby, lazy, rude, inconsiderate, un-educated. I pretty much want someone who is open-minded and won't hold me down.
2006-09-03 15:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no steady job, no goals or ambitions, that's what makes him a loser.
2006-09-07 15:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat94670 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No job, no money/savings, no house, no car, unkempt, don't launder his clothes weekly/forthnightly, dirty hair, dirty, ungroomed nails, no dental hygiene, and having parents and siblings who are drug addicts, alcoholics and who are promiscuous. If they have a house/apartment the apartment is dirty and a mess.
2006-09-03 22:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not having a life and having no sense of humor lol he second one i maked up lol
2006-09-03 15:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋