3 years ago I started chatting with an unknown person and in time got to know he was my kind if dream boy.. We keep in touch and he said that he loved me,I do to.. We have never met and i dont know whether i should accept this relationship. Can we be in love?
2006-09-03 08:05:56 · 26 answers · asked by Kiran urf msa sis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If chatting to someone that you have never met, then it is very easy to build an image of what they are like, and normally this would be an image of your dream date.
But you should take care in meeting people that you have never seen, even if you have seen a photo or spent x amount of years chatting, you really don't know for certain what you are letting yourself in for.
Be careful!
2006-09-03 08:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Panther 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your fantasy. You only know what he wants you to know. In reality he burps,farts and picks his nose just like everybody else.This could be annoying to you. It is awsome that you can communicate so well, that is something not everyone does face to face.That is a good start in a raltionship.For example; My daughter has 3 kids and met a sailor before he went to Iraq.They had a wonderful communication. when he got back from iraq, he met the kids and it didn't go too well.Now they don't know where their relationship is going. On the other hand, a friend of mine met a christian women on line and he married her right away. It worked out. So there are examples of pros and cons.You could be in love with love. You didn't say how old you were.
2006-09-03 15:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never done the internet or phone thing so i cant answer from personal experience but i have a friend who chatted w/ a guy for a few weeks before the met and when they finally did it didnt go over well. they had never seen one another and were not in the least bit attracted to one another in person. though on the phone they had this amazingly insane attraction to one another. it was sickening. we had a feeling it wasnt going to work out for her. the guy didnt find her to be attractive and he lied about his look completely. 50%, if not more,of attraction is physical when people meet. when i see i guy i am attracted to his physical, not personality. i cant see that. i find out if i like him by getting to know him later. good luck. three years is a long time. but why havent ya'll seen one another yet?what's the hold up?just wondering
2006-09-03 15:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a toughie, it could be possible, and could one of the most pure loves because there has been nothing physical. On the other hand he could simply be filling a void in your life that you have yet to find with someone else. It might not actually be love but something that you don't know how to classify because you've never had ti before.
2006-09-03 15:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is can you? Answer is yes but its tough. I met my husband online we talked on phone and online everyday. We were both honest (rare for Internet) we grew to know the other without beclouded by GREAT SEX which often confuses people into believing they are in love. One day he said something magical (for me) I blurted out I LOVE YOU or typed in this case. We talked on phone and PC for another few months before I left to live with him. We have been married several years now and have five children! So yes you can! but like another person be careful!!
2006-09-03 15:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with the conversations you have. You don't really know this person. Be careful. Online he can tell you anything. I have heard of many horror stories about people who meet on line then they turn out to be complete opposite of what they made themselves out to be.
You should plan to meet this person in a very public place for the first time. Sit with them and talk face to face. Start very slowly. You need to be careful though. You don't know.... this person could turn out to be a mass murderer or something. Use your brain.
2006-09-03 15:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone's personality, but whether there will be any physical chemistry is another matter. In my opinion, both things are equally important for a relationship to survive. I think you need to meet face to face to truly determine if you are in love.
2006-09-03 15:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by meg515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be very careful but you can. most people say no because you have to see a person, in some cases this way is better because you both like each other for who you are and not what you look like. when you see eachother, if you do u most not go into things to quickly it might just be the internet guy your talking to and not the real person. you will be able to see his true colours in real life.
2006-09-03 15:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by queen_gynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can fall in love with someone you have never seen....but be prepared and watch yourself just in case if he is using you....and if hes not great....and sometimes relationships like this can work out and eventually you'll see him..
2006-09-03 15:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lennie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha
The same thing happend to me
I could careless if he was a 40 year old virgin or a rapist I love him and I ended up asking him out we've been VERY happy together so far and we've made plans to get his picture and my parents agreed to take me to were he lives to meet him irl.
2006-09-03 15:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋