im being ivited to my brothers best friends engagment party and ive liked him for ages what am i supposed to do now??
2006-09-03 07:49:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Unfortunately he's engaged and it's not to you. You either go and wish him the best and behave yourself, or stay away. There's a time and a place for everything and that is not the time or the place for you to profess your love to him.
2006-09-03 07:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go and support him. Be happy for him. This happens to lots of women out there. He seems more appealing because he's off limits and taken. And I'm betting he would have never dated you because dating your best friend's sister is not a good idea.
Eventually you will find someone for you. Maybe even at this shindig. Go, and make sure you look hot. There's got to be some single guys there that won't be disgusting.
2006-09-03 07:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not available to you and you have known it as he is in a relationship. You have to get over it, put all thoughts of you and him out of your mind. Put on a brave face, go to the engagement as, who knows, there might be another dishy hunk there that you fancy!! The only alternative would be to not go, but that would be rather childish.
2006-09-05 00:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself, if you know you will just spend the whole time fighting back the tears then don't put yourself in that position and don't go. If you feel that you can hide your disappointment, then go because you may meet someone better.
2006-09-04 10:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gaia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go... You need to find your own. What will happen if the one getting marry was you and this girl that has feeling for your husband to be goes to the party... will you be happy? EFIL
2006-09-03 07:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not a lot you can do honey, he's promised to another.
I know how that feels, but just know that the one for you is much better then the one you've just lost. Move on with hope in your heart.
God bless.....x
2006-09-03 11:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him and ruin the whole thing for everybody... or get over it, move on and find someone better... that's not engaged, or married,
2006-09-03 07:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Johny0555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile be polite and just handle it show everyone you not a little girl any more and if possible get a better looking bloke than he is to hang of your arm lol
2006-09-03 07:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get over him... he obviously doesn't like you, go 2 the party n see if there are any fit lads that like youback
2006-09-03 07:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by ChipZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the party. (love is a gift we shouldn't wait for the exchange of love)
be happy for him and wait for someone that will be happy for you.
Good luck
2006-09-03 07:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Salah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋