I don't feel I need a woman, maybe I don't even want one. In fact I am of the opinion that many women are gold diggers. When I get horny, like everyday, I just turn on the porn and rub one out. I think sex isn't much better than masturbation... the release is the same. Then again I haven't had it so I wouldn't know, but I'm not really desperate for sex either... I mean it's just skin. Enough rambling... my question is: does a man really need a woman to be complete? Will a woman make me happy, or will she just find ways to steal my money and cause problems in my life? Am I better off without a gold digger in my life who probably wouldn't really love me? I'm really ugly so I'd imagine the only reason a woman might want me is because of what I have not who I am.
2006-09-03 07:35:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'll give you credit for being honest with yourself. Quite frankly I used to feel the same way. I was 38 before I got married, and I had a bunch of relationships before I finally found the right one. All the old ladies at church would say "you need a wife". My response was "someday, I might want a wife, but I don't need a wife". So I guess that's my answer - you don't need one. But if you want one, they're pretty nice to have around.
2006-09-03 07:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obvious opinion of women makes me think that you would be better off just remaining single and jacking off. Nothing at all wrong with that of course and in your case probably the best solution. There is much more than sex involved in having a relationship, lots of great benefits and joys as well as some drawbacks. It involves lots of compromise by BOTH partners. It's not for selfish people or mean spirited, hostile people. I can't imagine you having a good relationship with a woman although I don't know you and I could be wrong. The answer to your question is no a main really doesn't need a woman to get through life. If jacking off and being alone works for you, enjoy!
2006-09-06 04:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do anything to make my desire for women go away. So no you don't need a women, but life gets very hard alone. But not as hard as it is if you are with a terrible women. So here is the bottom line- You can probably find the right women if you are willing to go through pure hell to weed out the bad ones, You also have to have very good judgment about when to get out, and the strength to do so when the time comes. So if you have those abilities go out and find your soul mate. If your like the rest of us mere mortals get ready for a lot of pain courtesy of the opposite sex. Or do what I do, have a lot of friends that are girls, and try to have your need for women filled that way.
2006-09-03 08:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Roger S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really need to work on your self esteem before you try to date anyone. You also need to expose yourself to healthy relationships as it is obvious you haven't seen many. People get into relationships for more reasons than sex and money. Only jaded people think that is all it boils down to when people get together.
Companionship, closeness, friendship, joint goals and interests are a few things that go into a healthy relationship.
I hate be trite, but just as Forrest Gump's mama said, "Stupid is as stupid does,"
Shakespear said, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
Jesus said, "As a man thinketh, so is he." Lets put all these quotes together:
If you act ugly, you'll be ugly no matter what your outter appearance.
If you think you are ugly, other people will too.
If you walk with confidence knowing that what counts is on the inside, someone will accept you for yourself and find you to be just beautiful!
Pick your head up! (I mean the one on your sholders!)
2006-09-03 07:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea but I'm a guy and have had 4 girlfriends in my life, none of those I've yet married.
GOD gave us females to make the world complete. So why not go out and marry them, IF you've the money for such?? What harm would it be to do so?? Even have 1 kid or more... Again depending on your Money status.
2006-09-03 07:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by pblahut70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sex will be forever much better than any kind of masturbation!
I think it´s time to turn off your pc and go out for a real girl!
You´ll definitely have the worst trouble about her but, also you´ll definitely have the best times in all your life! a contradiction? well is the definition of a woman.. I love them!
Go ahead and good luck!
2006-09-03 07:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Doppelganger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think all women are out for money. and a woman could said the same about needing men, if it's true that sperm can now be genetically engineered or something maybe you will be left solo to 'rub one out' good luck in finding a partner though. it's not all about the sex it's about the connectionwith each other.
2006-09-03 07:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by shadownurse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im like you exept Ive been laid. Sex is all about the woman and just about everything in a relationship is all about the woman. Ive been through relationships where I have worked 2 jobs or did everything to make them happy. They always leave and treat me like crap. Sex is stupid and yes about 99% woman want a man with lots of cash. Plus they are whores that like to cheat!
2006-09-03 07:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your name. FOOL , it best describes you. You have some bad issues about women and not because I am one. You kind of hurt my feelings thinking about women as you do. Everybody needs somebody .If you are as ugly as you say well there are ugly women out there who would love to have a man. but keep up your rotten attitude and out look on women . you may need one at some time in your life and guess what , they wont help you.
2006-09-03 07:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you haven't met the right lady yet don't give up shes out there, when you least expect it you'll meet her, And not all woman are gold diggers.Good luck too you
2006-09-03 07:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋