2006-09-03 07:29:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
WHEN YOU CAN SPELL CHILDREN RIGHT!!!
2006-09-03 07:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easy:
When you have partied in bars and at clubs enough to not miss it if you only do it a few times a year.
When you can wake up at 6:00am no problem and aren't cranky all day because of it.
When you get to a point in your life when you see that staying at home can be fun, if you are with the right people (husband, kids, family, friends).
Because the bottom line is that your life will change. Drastically. This change will be for the worse if you are not ready. You will resent your baby and hate your new life if you still expect to be able to do all the things you once did, but think that you'll just get a babysitter from time to time.
But the change will be for the best when you are OK to have your old life stop, not knowing what the new one has in store for you. Every morning is like Christmas morning with a child, because you never know what you're going to get. Each day is different and a surprise in its own way. If you're not ready to hang up your club wear or to eat in more than you eat out, you're not ready for a child.
2006-09-03 14:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone is every READY say the least but if you have a partner and are in love and have been for a time now and are financially stable enough to support a child then I'd dsay sure but a child needs both parents and should never EVER be brought into the world simply to have something there a child should be created out of love and a home should be provided with lots of love and care to go with!!!
But if you sit back and wait till you feel READY you'll never be a parent.....
2006-09-03 14:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me - children are a true TEST of your ADULTHOOD .The ywil lalways fidn a way to make you to that DOUBLE TAKE and then have that stupid I DONT KNOW LOOK on your face.All awahile you hear a voice in the bakc of your head saying ,thats their mothers side of the family or they are not gonna live to see ( incretian childs next age level here ) .And for you men out there . YES there will eb a time whe nyou wife comes home walks up to you and looks you right i nthe eye and smacks the hell out of you after she has been somewhere , without , with the children.When you ask whats that for , she wil lreply angrily " and then you can ask WHAT did they do ? and BE RIGHT ! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
2006-09-03 14:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really depends on you,if you are mature enough, and if you are sure you are ready, if you have a partner involved and he/she is ready.And if you can emotionally handle the responsibilities that go along with raising children, and of course if you are financially able to handle the expense of providing for the child.
Money is not everything, but there are expenses that will come up in taking care of children.
2006-09-03 15:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the doctor puts the baby on your chest and congratulates you on your beautiful new baby. Even though you might not know how to take care of it you will wing it. If you love that child you will do whatever it takes to make sure that child gets everything it needs to survive and everything it wants to get it to shut up. Good Luck. There really is no way to know for sure. Even people who have children say they weren't ready for the last one. They make it work though.
2006-09-03 14:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anybody is ever truly ready. I've seen parenthood come as a shock to the most together people. You just have to follow your heart, some people never feel ready to have kids and thats ok too. I think people who want kids must be kinda crazy!
2006-09-03 14:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you and your partner are content with each other but are feeling some type of emptiness that you can't put your finger on. It's a natural progression that once you're settled with your partner, you get the yearning to start a family.
2006-09-03 14:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by ok_im_smarty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NEVER ready for children! But don't let that put you off. Wouldn't be without mine.
2006-09-03 15:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't, but when your pregnant or your partner is having a child ur matural in-stinks kick in and ur automatically ready without even realising, unless u don't bond well with ur child or suffer from post natal depression
2006-09-07 09:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by LEGG$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open a daycare in your home, or buy a puppy if your ready to quit after i month or looking for a new home after one week, keep the babies on hold
2006-09-03 15:32:15 · answer #11 · answered by bearngunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋