I am a young lady who always wanted to live a life of fun n excitement. A year and a half ago I developed a strange illness, I get severe pain in my neck n arms along with dizziness and vomiting. Its only gettin worse. I cant sleep, work,eat or exert for long n worst of all cant study properly. I have been pulling along for so long just in hope of someday getting over with it. My C.T n M.R.I fail to detect anything n docs just labelled me as cervical spondylitis coz they had no explanation(very unlikely for my age).
I dont want to live on medication for the rest of my life.I am getting the best of medical attention but at times I feel like jumping off a bridge( today is one of those bad days). Plz give me a reason why I shudn't do so n continue to battle it out...
2006-09-03 07:25:28 · 12 answers · asked by N 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
hey
u are young and you have to still enjoy life to its maximum
if all the investigations are suggestive of spondylities you dont have to be on medication all the time
you just have to do some physical exercise (PHYSIOTHERAPY)
you will have to it regularly and use a very thin piloow when sleeping
u will be ok ...........BEST OF LUCK for ur worth living life
2006-09-03 07:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is definitely worth living! Believe it or not, this experience could have the potential to deepen the quality of your life even more. Think of the people that you admire the most. I'll bet many of them have had to overcome difficult obstacles as well. Although your life is turning out as you had hoped, embrace what you're being dealt and turn it into something great.
You may feel like crap most of the time not being able to sleep, eat or enjoy the things you used to enjoy, but just go with it. Of course take the time to mourn for your loss of health and the way things were, but be careful to only do this for a season. The stages of disease are very similar to those of a dying person. Read up on it and press on! You can do it! The world is rooting for you!
Just so you know, I'm speaking from experience. Two years ago I was diagnosed with advanced dysplasia in my colon which required two surgery's and the eventual removal of my entire large intestine. I led a very active lifestyle prior to this and now I live every day dealing with my altered digestive system and have pain every day. It's difficult and most days I have no energy, but I still find hope in something everyday.
There is joy and goodness in life, you just have to find it. If you're digging what I'm saying, let me know and I can email you more. All the best to you!
2006-09-07 11:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Big Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you as I feel the same way you do only for financial reasons.. I just take it one day at a time. I am in constant mental pain... all I know is that once you end it , it is done for good and there is no changing your mind. I hope there is enough good in every day that can help you keep hanging on.. also, if you can get some real help...
2006-09-09 16:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by beemersbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its worth living bcoz this is ur life where u meet other people and try to communicate with them and finally a day comes in this life u get some one special who always care for u.......running from life is not bravery .Time comes in every bodys life when one has to go through bad phases i was bed ridden for 1 year i was not able to walk not even able to move out of the bed .Even i thought i will not live any more and decided to jump from my window .But then came a hope in my life and finally i got out and now i can walk and run as well.This shows the hope of life if u think ending ur life is a better option then fighting for ur self then i will say its a negative thinking.....
2006-09-03 08:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up! Life is worth living. I'm sure that your parents would be very hurt if you would consider ending it all. Sure you have your bad days we all do, but remember God has purpose for your life. We don't understand everything that happen to us but there is a reason for every situation. Be encourage. You are a beautiful person!! So hang in there!! Here's my email if you need to talk. ladyhighlyfavored@hotmail.com
2006-09-03 08:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl, No matter how hard life gets and no matter how bad we all may feel, Your life is the world to someone else and they need you no matter what.
Life is short and hard enough on us all.
So do not go and do something so final that it messes up everyone that is close to you.
Remember that which does not kill us only makes us stronger.
You keep getting the medical help and someone will figure it out.
Have faith dear, be strong and God Bless You!
2006-09-03 07:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Biker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SEE MY DEAR
its not correct to take the life like that
just do some simple yogic exercises and do deep breathing in very very fresh air.
ur problem will be solved.
just do it right now
each day u will find the difference
keep docs away. they r of no use as on today
everything is cooooooommmmmmmmmmmercialised.
2006-09-06 22:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neha,
ever realised just how lucky we are. we were born into wonderful homes, have had all that so many others in our country pine for. we've got great education, friends, mom and dad, bros and sisters, parties, picnics, books, pets, ... so much. everyday is a harbinger of something new, something unexpected, something beautiful. life indeed is beautiful.
theres a reason for everything. a reason to live, a reason to love, a reason to cry. but if u cant find a reason to smile, can i be the reason for just a while !
2006-09-06 03:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by ronnieguyoncam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I heard, you are being very strong to ask us for help. And of course, I can help you feel better. It is worth living because you are a strong young woman who's life will enlighten one day for. You are worth it because you are unique and a nice indefensive person. You are given the time to live life. Live it and then you'll one day remember me. You are worth living. God Bless You
2006-09-03 08:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry.
I hope you will reconsider
5 years ago my son was told he would never walk again.
Yesterday,he got out of his wheelchair and with the aid of a walker he walked around his home
It was so good.
He has a muscle wasting disease caused by diabetes.
He also was of your state of mind.
Please hang in there.
Miracles do happen.
2006-09-03 07:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋