What can i do i love them both and it is tearing me apart that the 2 people i love the most are at each others throat and i am stuck in the middle plz help
2006-09-03 07:25:07 · 15 answers · asked by susan p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
does your mom pay all the bills?....besides your mom gave you life...who's more important?
2006-09-03 07:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Liz S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do i support them both ,be their for them both ,talk to them bothtry and make then see how this is affecting you,tell them how its hurting you ,tell them if they care for you at all they will sort this problem out its not good to be in the middle of this ,and all in the same house ,but if they are on a roll ,you are in for a rocky ride as some things can only be sorted with time ,i di feel for you i really do ,the only other option i can see that might wake them both up is to tell them you are leaving ,but with out all the details of how why and age ,its hard to predict,but look at things as fair as you can on both dides and maybe play fron ear,try and keep them apart when you know a situation may cause friction,but losing your temper with them will not work as they seem to me they are already on the defensive from each other ,and they may just snap at you as well ,which will only make matters worse,try your best to keep things as calm as you can ,there are no rules ans no real asnsweres as every person react differently to different situations ,you know them and and only you can judge how to deal with them ,i wish you well,
2006-09-03 07:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, because 16 years previous is kids and the hormones that administration thoughts are fluctuating for the time of that era wildly (20% of prevalent to as extreme as 500% of prevalent) because the body grows into the fellow kind, that is not any longer outstanding that you've mood swings. As I bear in mind mine, i ought to develop right into a right away rage from a euphoric happiness for likely no reason in any respect. that is all glandular. ought to not in any respect prefer to go via that again!!!!! also, even as it appeared like I did my percentage of chores, it wasn't until eventually eventually I were given a authentic activity and appeared again at what I did as an adolescent that i realized my mom replaced into actual, i replaced into extremely extremely lazy compared to what an human being is envisioned to do automatically. desire there replaced right into a magic pill that can make all of it workout consultation yet time is the actually answer...that and artwork out that previous rule of 'chew your tongue' ...do not comprehend what else to allow you to comprehend... sympathies ;)
2016-12-06 07:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down and have a summit meeting. Resolve it or end the situation by getting your friend somewhere else to live.
2006-09-03 07:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best firend to find a new place to live. That's what's going to happen, anyway, your mom will kick her out.
2006-09-03 07:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by AzOasis8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they need to grow up and start acting like adults
2006-09-03 07:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all who house is it?...if it's your mothers house i advise you and your friend to move get your own place...if it's your house ask your mother to move...but if your mother has medical problems and that's why she is living with you ask her to try and get along with your friend...explain it to her that you love them both dearly and it tears you up to see them arguing...
2006-09-03 07:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to get over it. or you could always result to locking them both out of the house.
2006-09-03 07:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, you're having one of a referee's job..
be prepared when your mom is ready to kick your best friend out of the house...
2006-09-03 07:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by di_ako_guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make them both stand with their noses on the wall in till the can behave.
2006-09-03 07:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by bryan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U live with your best friend? oh well. Just tell them how you feel, and break out crying... it will make them feel sorry and they'll stop.
2006-09-03 07:31:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋