we've gone out 3 times -- weve talked for several weeks. we're both early 30s.
she tells me today -- hours before we are going to a picnic dinner tonight with a small group of my friends (6 couples) that she's keeping her profile in the personals active and talking to a couple of guys.
she says: I'm not saying that I don't want to see you again. I do still want to spend time with you.
i asked anyone interesting she's talked to? she says too early to tell.
Ok ladies -- whats the message here. is she saying she needs more wooing? how would you react today?
2006-09-03 07:23:51 · 13 answers · asked by questioningminds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I think she is just being honest with you and letting you know she is not exclusive with you. She didn't have to tell you, but is just letting you know she is seeing others. You might want to consider seeing someone else if you are looking for a lady exclusive to you
2006-09-03 10:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by G♥♥G♥♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs more 'wooing.' Some girls like to keep their options open. You may 'win' in the long run, but you will have to be patient. I think that you should always date multiple people so that you don't get swept into a decision too early.
2006-09-03 14:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wooing! Just be yourself! Everyone deserves to get to know different people before they make a commitment and you shouldn't be doing things you normally wouldn't just to attract her towards you. She obvisously is old enough to know what she wants and you need to respect her for that. Your to old to glamour her with things that aren't real. So just be yourself today and tell your friends that she is a close friend. Good luck!
2006-09-03 14:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by colleen3273 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is telling you that she is not ready yet to be in an exclusive relationship. She is dating and getting to know more about what she likes and doesn't like. She is keeping her options open and if she is still willing to go out with you, you are one of her options.
2006-09-03 14:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by shar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's keeping her options open, in case your relationship doesn't work out. I would try to "woo her" more but not too much that she starts to find it overbearing.
2006-09-03 14:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♥SassyBlonde♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She s playing the field ,still looking for Mr Right, Play hard to get she will be more interested in you.
2006-09-03 14:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't come on too heavy. Definately play it cool. She's telling you that she needs space and that you two are not exclusive. Its no accident that she told you about her profile. Don't freak out on her either, you will scare her away.
2006-09-03 14:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be insulted. So her message means that she wants to leave her options open until she finds someone better. You really picked a winner.
2006-09-03 14:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes tryint nicely to be just friends maybe you should make sure she isnt getting too close to a buddy of yours ....??
2006-09-03 14:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her continue doing what ever she likes, you do the same. don't trip. enjoy the time that you are with her, maybe she likes you but there is something that she don't like about you. ask her she can tell you better than anybody else.
2006-09-03 14:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweet sexy san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋