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My mom and dad is being so mean and concerned about me having a girlfreind and they want me to brake up with her and many other things I so want to kill them

2006-09-03 07:21:19 · 20 answers · asked by chickenthunda 2 in Family & Relationships Family

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relax don't break up with your girl tell them that it's your relationship and not threes and u don't think the would like for someone to break them off so tell them **** off

2006-09-03 07:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by bublez1727 1 · 1 0

first off how old are you ? Second wh ydo you eve nthink like KILL your parents ?
WTF is wrong with you , just cuz they happen to NOT like you dating , you wantthe mdead ? LOL Well hate ot say this but you need ot understand some facts :
1) you souind like a freshmen in school - girls will come and go .SO why sweat one ?Be thankful your paretns care enough to voice their opinion to you , some dont bother and allow their kids ot become animals.
2)Parents want you to focus on other issues first such as school . yes ? SO whats wrogn wit hthat ? Oh yeah thats right - you hate it and you will never use any thing you learn i nschool in real life ... Yeah Right belief that and you will never go far ...Think of tyhis - you go to work and you will be paid ... how will you know if you got all the pay coming to you ? or Fill out that Job Application ? Or even read and sign the agreemtn wit hyour empployer that you understand the rules and regulations of the company ? WHY cuz you are using the things you where thought in school ....See my point now.
3) It heruts when parents say DO THIS and I do not give a reason behind it BUT you should try to SHOW them you wil llisten and you will BUST your but to prove you can handle school - work - and a relationship PERIOD .Tis way they will allow you more freedoms!
4) you should be thinking how do I show mom and dad I can handle a relationship in my life and still do school work and fidn a job and firends and keep everyone or everything even kilded.
Stop whining about its not fair and think of ways to show mom and dad you care about their opinions and love and wish to expained your love with her !

2006-09-03 14:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0 0

Did it ever dawn on you that just maybe, your parents just might know something that you don't? They might be trying to do you a favor. When young people get to that age when their hormones start working, somehow they get the ridiculous idea that they know it all. My stepson just married a girl that wouldn't work in a pie factory, tasting pies. The two of them lived with my wife and I for about four months and the whole time they were here all she did was lay around on the couch and talk about how much stress she was under. The only stressful thing I saw her do was decide what to watch on TV every day. Everybody who knows the two of them tried to tell him he was making a mistake but he wouldn't listen. So take it from someone who knows sit down with your parents, and listen to what they have to say. Try to see things from their point of view, you may not thing so right now, but they only want what is best for you. Someday you will be glad you did. It's a tuff world now days son, let them tell you what they had to learn the hard way.

2006-09-03 14:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by smoke 4 · 0 0

You are very angry. I can see that! You don't want to kill your parents. You just want them to approve of your having a girlfriend. Perhaps you are too young. You will show your maturity if you listen to them and their reasons why you should not see this girl, or why they are concerned about you seeing her.
Take some time to cool off. Then try talking calmly with your parents. They only want what is best for you and you know that. This is why you used the word, "concerned," when you wrote your question. Respect your parents.

2006-09-03 14:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0 0

yo chickenthunda? get a life, PLUS you can't spell, so you must be too young to have a serious relationship with a girl. you write this crap out here for us to feel sorry for you? well i don't. your mom and dad are probably working very hard to keep you in a lifestyle for which you've become accustomed, but don't appreciate it. with some of you, it's always, me, me, me! Do you even know what you mom's favorite things are? Have you had a conversation with your dad about his life? I'm sure not, so get a clue kiddo! You're EXTREMELY fortunate to have parents who care enough to help you make good decisions. If I were there, I'd give you a swift kick in the *** for even saying that about your parents!

2006-09-03 14:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1 0

Calm down for a minute and read what you have written (or not written). You have a severe issue with your anger and you need to talk to someone first. It doesn't have to be your parents since they are the focus of your anger. Talk to a teacher or a clergyman if possible or even a friend of your parents if you think you can confide in them.

2006-09-03 14:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bullwinkle Moose 6 · 2 0

Sounds like you might be too young to have a gf. They are looking out for your best interests.

OR

Tell them "I will be seeing her and dating her no matter what you say, and I like her too much to let her go. If you forbid me to see her, you will force me to do things I don't want to do. I don't want to lie to you. I don't want to sneak around behind your backs. Forbidding me to see her gives me no choice. What do you really want from me? Better grades? Do you want me to use a condom if we have sex? What do you really want? Because dumping her is out of the question, but I'm willing to work with you on many other options."

That's what I would say. I hope this helps.

2006-09-03 14:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0 0

You must be like 13-16 yrs old because if you were older and more mature you wouldn't feel that way and you would understand that family is the MOST important thing in your life...

2006-09-03 14:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Adri 2 · 0 1

Honor your Mother and Father.

2006-09-03 14:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by learning 2 · 0 0

Don't kill them because they won't let you go out with someone. Try thinking from their perspective even if it means that you are wrong.

2006-09-03 14:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by :DD dls kid 3 · 0 1

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