How can i tell her i'm very shy to talking to girls. sometimes when i look at her then she look at me give me solution
2006-09-03 07:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa, hold on there, cowboy! You barely even know the girl, so it isn't love. If you go after her with that sort of intensity, you will scare her away. You need to start small.
First, you're going to have to talk to her. Get to class early and say hello, and ask her how her semester is going. Ask her about her favorite class, and who teaches it. Ask her where she is from, what her major is, etc. You've got to establish a line of communication between you and her before you dive right in and profess your undying love.
Her response to your conversation will let you know if she is interested. If she seems into the conversation, and smiles and makes a lot of eye contact, you might want to invite her on a very casual date after a few weeks, maybe you could go out for coffee together one afternoon, or out to lunch. If she says yes, great. You will have to build your relationship up slowly from there. If she says no, she is not interested, and I would recommend dating girls that you know who are already friends of yours, to help develop your dating skills.
Dating is like anything else, you have to work your way up to it. Once you meet the right person, it will be easy and natural, and you will discover how nice and simple being in love can really be.
2006-09-03 07:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by MissM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your shy ( which I am too ) dont act wierd!!! All you have to do is gradually snug up to her but dont think about it too much. Dont try getting somebody else to ask her out either because that is so lame! Another thing to be aware of. Its called the Friendship Ring. Dont get caught just being friends. Then she will see you as a non threat and not even consider ever having a real relationship with you. Have confidence and maybe try and casually start a conversation. Find out what she likes and use it to your benifit. If your confident and you talk to her it may turn out well. If you dont talk to her nothing is ever going to happen. And dont tell her that you love her because that will wierd her out! Good Luck!
2006-09-03 07:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is this you like and and love her? makes no sense, if you think she's good looking or hot then that has nothing to do with like or especially love, this is called lust, if you just went up to her somewhere on campus (not a party) and just said Hi that would be a great start, she knows you exist and will either be interested or not, next time get into a little conversation about what ever (current events, things going on on campus, parties) let her get to know a little about you then once again she will be interested or not, don't forget to take the opportunities to meet other girls, if you get hung up on this one girl you could be missing other opportunities that are right in front of you, college is only 4 years, don't blow away time with a lustful thought with no action, college is the only place that there are many many choices of woman, trust me after college it drops way down
2006-09-03 07:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her that you like her she'll hate you. If you tell her you love her she will get a restraining order. You have to reat her badly and then ask her out casually. You have to give her an option of days so that she can't say she's busy. You have to get a specific day to actually schedule it. You have to open doors for her without looking insecure. You have to pay for her and you have to make the moves on her that night. If you do not try to get her clothes off she will never go out with you again. If you don't succeed in kissing her she will not like or respect you. Careful. You will probably destroy your reputation in her eyes that night, but Good Luck!
2006-09-03 07:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you might like her, but you don't love her. Love between people takes knowing each other and sharing time with each other before you can truely love that person. Lust and love my friend are two completely different things. Before you can love someone you need to first learn the difference between the two.
2006-09-03 07:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait--you want to tell this girl you love her! She's going to be totally freaked and take out a restraining order against you.
2006-09-03 07:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you don't her so you can't love her. But I suggest asking her out or asking her to grab a snack together after class. Go slow.
2006-09-03 07:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe send her some flowers with a note attached telling her how you feel OR give her a box of candy with a note attached telling her how you feel.
2006-09-03 07:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by herbie36f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest getting a cup of coffee after class, and get to be friends first.
2006-09-03 07:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL START OFF BY JUST SPEAKING TO HER...YOU KNOW ASK HER ABOUT SOME HOMEWORK OR SOME OTHER QUESTION PERTAINING TO CLASS AND THEN GO FROM THERE. BUT DON'T JUST START OFF BY TELING HER THAT YOU LIKE OR LOVE HER, YOU MAY RUN HER AWAY (ESPECIALLY WITH "LOVE" SO SOON). GIVE HER A CHANCE TO WARM UP TO YOU FIRST...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-03 07:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋