I have never had a boyfriend and im 14 is that good cuz all of my friends have had 1 and it seems like im the only one.
2006-09-03 07:03:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thankyou for all your posts i really appreciate it x
2006-09-03 07:24:33 · update #1
Sweet heart, don't rush into anything.
Your a baby still and when I was your ages many moons ago I felt the same why do all my mate hae girlfriend sand I dont.
Ok yes I was very much involed with the drama club and the like but we did have some realy hotties there.
But honey dont rush in, and dont treat him like dirt either (if your lucky to find some1)
Your a good girl and you obviosly know what your after, I say take your time and your find what you want but it may take years.
I am 31 and I have meet the woman of my dream.
I hope yo do meet the man of your dreams when it time for you...
x
2006-09-07 09:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by jc041174 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do not worry about that; i am 26 now and at 13-14 i was so worried that my mates had boyfriends and i didn't... so i got one and then this whole subject of s'x came up, now what kind of girlfriend would i be if i didn't do it... and all my friends were doing it... well last year i was having a chat with my mates who at the time bragged about boyfriends and we brought up the subject of first boyfriends most of them did not have a boyfriend till 16-17 and had lied at school to look the part... me on the other hand did have a boyfr'nd but didn't want one, had s'x which for the first time does hurt ... enough detail... just dont rush anything, take your time, trust you, if your ready yep - if not, don't. who cares if your mates have, also to be able to say no to a boy at your age is hard, so just bare it in mind at your age most boy only want to sleep with girls they know so they can tell their mates.... yep that did happen to me and it went all around school...nice.. good kuck
2006-09-09 14:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a boyfriend until I was nearly 16 and I thought that was sooo late, but honestly, now that I know more people, it's really not late. Some people don't date until they are in their 20s! Just relax, and don't just jump into a relationship for the sake of having one. Something will come along.
2006-09-03 07:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14? oh no your life is over! lol
seriously you have all the time in the world to have a boyfriend - how many of your friends have had a trouble free relationship? i bet not many. be patient & the right guy will come along when you least expect it. oh & don't sell yourself short - don't just go out with someone for the sake of it. you'll only make yourself miserable x
2006-09-03 07:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by tjstarbe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things you have all your life in front of you I know that at 14 you probably think that you are missing out on something.You are not, take full advantage of your youth life is very short.
2006-09-03 07:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by angelo26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry babe, im nearly 16 and i havent had a boyfriend, and totally ok! it doesnt really matter whether your friends have bfs, it just takes a matter of finding the right guy! keep ur eyes open, and dont feel u have to rush into anything because you have to.
2006-09-03 07:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by azaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same age, and yep, in the same boat. It sucks doesn't it.
At least you know that when the time comes, it'll feel even more special and you'll have so much more to give. Keep smiling ok?
2006-09-03 07:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you, we all tend to rush into having boyfriends and stuff and to be honest at your age we re just not mature enough to handle the heart ache it causes.
have fun with the girls and when the times right you ll find a good guy xx
2006-09-08 10:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's plenty of time. Your friends are possibly fibbing to you to make themselves look good. It doesn't matter if you haven't got a boyfriend - at your age their are lots more things to be enjoying
2006-09-03 07:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your time will come and you'll probably end up being the one with the best relationship. It all comes, don't worry, don't act desperate, just let it happen naturally.
2006-09-09 11:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋