2006-09-03 06:58:59 · 15 answers · asked by Boots 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need help, at 13 you're just beginning to find out who you are and deciding who you want to be. If that's straight then that's fine, if that's lesbian that's fine too. I would suggest that although you can't really change feelings and attraction by wishing they would change, with time feelings change all on their own. You have your whole life ahead of you, why not give it a year and see where you are at that time.
There will always be someone telling you that your choices are wrong, mostly because they didn't make the same choices. Everyone has to decide for themselves who they are going to be, and I guarantee you no matter what choice you can and will find people that will support your choice.
2006-09-03 07:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its an internal brain thing. People who are homosexual dont have a choice. THe hormones in their body just tell them to be excited by females/males whether they are one, or not.
2006-09-03 14:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Eileen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's natural thing to have feelings to same sex but sometime our society specially our parent don't agree with homosexuality.
my opinion is if you really a lesbian, just be a lesbian and don't mind about what everyone thinks about it.
be proud to yourself
however if you not a really a lesbian or still confuse with your sexuality, so you have to find out by yourself with no other intervering your decision
i hope you find your true you
2006-09-03 14:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by catlovers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok that you like girls, you cant really help it. maybe avoid telling people or they'll be confused and make fun of you because they don't understand you. Just get support from friends and family and be the best person you can be.
2006-09-03 14:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by meg *__* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You certainly do.You have taken the first step by admitting it so now go and talk to someone that you can trust and will have your interests at heart.
2006-09-03 14:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by angelo26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you're still very young and you might change when you get older so just give it time and who knows you might go straigt. Just wait and maybe talk to your mom about this.
2006-09-03 14:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Maryanne J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to tell you!! but its not exactly a good thing that your lesbian... maybe your bi. does the idea of kissing a guy discust you?? watch chick flicks like titanic or something classic like that. then... try to find a guy you wouldn't mind kissing or going out with and GET him. maybe he'll make you get over it.
2006-09-03 14:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
clam down! i am come up for you! ok
you want a boy? or you have brain thing and i think you like lesbian but it's normal for teenger people and many people do that. and you want stop lesbain then talk to me back and i will come up for you to help to you, anytime i will help you.
2006-09-03 14:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Timothy C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby gurl, its ok to like girls! Im sorry if your uncomfortable with your sexuality prefrence but we are what we are and the harder we try to change it the more what we are Stands Out!!! Know wat i mean, LoL... Good Luck, Lots Of Love...Kelly*
2006-09-03 14:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by kellylewis652000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go talk to an adult about this but keep in mind you don't have to do nothing you dont want to do
2006-09-03 14:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋