I was seeing this guy and we agreed we would just be friends. I started to have more than friendship feelings for him and I told him it's best we stopped seeing each other because I like him more than a friend and I know he doesn't feel the same way. He told me he wants to talk about this in person and asked to meet with me on Monday. But I'm worried and nervous about meeting with him. What do you think he's going to say? Please be serious.
2006-09-03 06:50:09 · 15 answers · asked by worried_one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be worried or nervous. be calm, cool, collected, and confident. the four c's. im completely serious.... he might like you more than a friend, too, but you have to wait till tomorrow. i know its hard but try to take your mind off of it and USE THE FOUR C'S!!!!
good luck and please let me know what he actually does say!
2006-09-03 06:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue what he might say, because I have no idea about all the background and history involved. There is no way to know all the details of another's relationship.
Agree to meet him, and listen to what he has to say. Make him talk first. There are limited possibilities here.
1. He feels the same for you. Yeah! You have a boyfriend back.
2. He wants to try to make the friendship work. That will be hard to do since you want more than he can give. Explain to him why you aren't comfortable with this anymore.
3. He wants to know why in more detail. He didn't take the rejection well, so he wants an explanation. Give it to him, then get on with your life.
4. He wants to have a chance to vent at your treatment. If he starts in on you, get up and leave. You don't have to listen to a temper tantrum from him. Forget him.
No matter what happens, he should be the one talking first. He wanted to see you, so you shouldn't let yourself get put on the spot. After he lets you know where he is going, then you can decide how to respond.
Personally, I would think that this is something positive. Why would he set himself for pain if he only wanted to be friends and listen to you tell him why you don't want that anymore. If he was mad and wanted to take it out on you, he could have gotten that out of his system over the phone or in an email. What makes the most sense for the meeting is that he feels the same way, and wants to discuss a possible relationship.
2006-09-03 14:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know what he's going to say. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Did you just start liking him more than a friend, because you knew a romantic relationship would never happen? One of those "wanting what you can't have" type of things.
2006-09-03 13:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's going to say that he feels the same way that you do and wants to be more than friends. Otherwise he would have told you he agreed and stopped seeing you. I think he's ready to start dating you. God bless!
2006-09-03 14:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he just want to told you about how he feel about you and friendship
how do you know that he doesn't have same feeling like you?
if he really like you hon, why don't you give it a tried, don't be a afraid what will happen to both of you, just live your live today not only think about the future
you should meet him on monday, please don't make any excuse to not meet him. just talk face to face with him and both of you will know what your friendship will be going to
meet him, okay hon. don't be afraid, just brave yourself and always thinks positive. okay!!!
wish u luck
2006-09-03 13:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by catlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident in who you are and the decisions you make, and what he says wont affect you that badly. You never know, he might want to meet in person to tell you that he has similar feelings
2006-09-03 13:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by you want to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't worry about it.
You have a 50/50 chance at getting what you want.
I don't know why he is putting it off.
Sounds to me like he's playing games.
I'd get a makeover and ignore his azz.
Then see if he can wait til monday.
Say a prayer and have a good SUNDAY.
2006-09-03 14:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and why it is best for you to just stay away. He might be okay and understanding, if not then he isn't for you anyway.
Whatever the end results leave it as friends.
2006-09-03 13:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well looks pretty good that he wants to meet or he would tell you no right out and leave at that.
2006-09-03 13:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is intrigued. Best of luck. Maybe the feeling is the same for him.
2006-09-03 13:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋