i was talking to one of my friend boys one night and he put his friend on the phone with us. I started liking his friend. My friend boy had to go to church but i didn't want him to get off the phone so he gave his friend my phone number and he called. We talked and got real close. My friend boy asked me to go with him so i said yes but i was still interested in his friend. So his friend asked me out one day and i said yea. I told my friend boy and he got very mad. So now he talks about me all the time and is still mad about this when it happened like 5 months sgo. I really wanna make things better with him because i don't go with his friend anymore. I know that i was wrong by doing what i did but i mean is it illegal to try to make things better between me and him????? so please help what should i do???? thankyou so much!!!!
2006-09-03 06:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by advice quick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it is illegal. the dating police will come and arrest you
2006-09-03 06:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me share with you what i recommend.
In the beggining if he brought it up i'll apologize and stuff but after a while it becomes stressful on your friendship/relationshiip. So after like a few months if he brought it up this is how i would try to stop him from bringing it up.
tell him this everytime he brings it up then don't participate. Say you know what......." WE have gone over this and i'm sorry but its not fair that u keep bringing it up so we can argue. I know how you feel about it right ! and you know how i feel so i'm not going to participate in these conversations anymore. It takes 2 to tango/argue & refuse to participate anymore hun."
AND if he continues just ignore him and let him do it all by himself after a few weeks of that he'll stop bringing it up, its no fun to argue and talk to yourself.
2006-09-03 14:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend boy should understand you guys are just friends, if someone of intrest comes across your life there should be nothing wrong with pursing them for friendship or more. I really do not see a problem, communicate with this friend boy and tell him to get over it, your friendship is more important than a shallow hang up of his
2006-09-03 13:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get together with this guy and talk to him one on one. think out a scenario with you and him, and what you would say. don't be mean or anything though, just explain everything to him. tell him you really want to make things right with you guys because you really like him or something. don't worry...it happens to the best of us!
2006-09-03 13:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by love_me_4_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u did was wrong i dont blam him for being mad at u i dont know how u could make this situation any worse or better
2006-09-03 13:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pray and read in my bible, for in my heart i know the answers are already there.
2006-09-03 14:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by learning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk it out with him
2006-09-03 13:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋