we went out last year a lot we were on and off and now we are no again, but he has never kissed me. my friends all dare him and stuff but he says he will but ends up not doing it. we hug,and hold hands but he is afraid or something, what can i do to help him and we can kiss?
2006-09-03 06:36:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe this is the kind of guy that expects the girl to kiss first. My boyfriend kept giving me hints and i told him that if he really wanted to kiss me, hed just do it already, nd he did- when i wasnt expecting it!
2006-09-03 06:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by it makes me smile :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very shy. Make sure that when ever you want to get intimate with him, both of you are by yourselves. Also, he has probably never kissed someone before and it is afraid of not being a good kisser. He'll probably get a ***** the first time we;ll kiss you he-he. Good luck!
2006-09-03 06:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by VivianKnows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes jus scared that his kisses are bad. you need to give him some guidance. maybe you go in for the kill or if you dont want 2 jus yet. maybe talk 2 him about kissing. say.. i would really like to kiss you or something and ask him if he wants to. he sjsu probably scared of dissapointing you make sure you tell him you wont be dissapointed even if he slobbers all over your face or you lose a tooth. try stroking his face or something nice like that to make him feel more comfortable with you.
2006-09-03 06:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young. Don't rush your b/f. Kissing leads to other things neither of you are ready to do. He is smart to know that and what he is comfortable doing. Respect him. He'll kiss you when he is ready. Think how you'll feel if you push him to kiss and later he pushes YOU for things you are not ready to do.
2006-09-03 06:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and ask him why he doesnt want to kiss you? communication is the the key to a good relationship! he probably doesnt know how to kiss or make out so maybe he is shy!? or you try making the first move if you can or if you just want to wait for him
godd luck girl! =)
2006-09-03 06:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by {{;*$! BIANCA_A.K.A_CARNE !$*;}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move, if he doesn't have the balls for it then take that pressure off him... a lot of guys find girls making the first move, or just a move in general, hott and attractive, it means you don't completely depend on him and put all the pressure on him to kiss you... if u want to kiss him do it urself
2006-09-03 06:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about other people kissing. Talk about his upbringing... maybe it's just too soon... How old you are is very important too. If you're 9 years old, you need to be playing sports and having girlfriends.
If you're 16 and so is he, then he needs to jump on it!
2006-09-03 06:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, body i think, don't mind but he is not interested in u, i think u r taking him seriously. i think u should try to convince him, that how much u love him, love is not just kissing, or just having fun through physical relationship. u both should have a faith in each other., try to catch him emotionally, how much u love him??? all the best..
2006-09-03 06:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by imran_hala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever discussed sexual preference? religious beliefs? maybe he does not no how to kiss or feel uncomfortable about kissing the more you push the more he'll back up. how's you breath? do you smoke?
2006-09-03 06:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by sumayyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is u first hug him tightly from front wet ur lips and move ur lips towards his lips he really kisses try this out it really works
2006-09-03 06:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋