well ive beenreally depressed lately even tho its been a month now why is it so hard to get over a girl that i really used to love alot i miss her alot i used to treat her like a princess i used to take her out every weekend and tell her how much i loved i even used to buy her rosess and take em to her school in front of other of people i didnt care why cause my love was true and i did like her till fianally she cheatted on me i gave her another chance and she did it again and then fianally it ended . i feel messed up cause i still have fellings for her waht should i do i need to get over it dosent help when people tell me shes having sex with other people what should i do i still miss her and love her. i even still cry for her and think bout her it just downt help im really falling apart dosent seem like if is going to change or im gonna heal.
2006-09-03 06:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by mikeymike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please don't worry.....it will pass and your broken heart will heal. This is part of life. I remember when I was a teenager I was soooo in love with a boy that swept me off my feet. He was my world and made me so happy. Well they say all good things come to an end and I guess that is true with life. I was so upset and devastated that I couldn't eat or sleep. I was a mess for a long time. But the healing process kicks in and believe it or not you will meet someone else and love again. Keep a positive attitude. Work on yourself. Focus on yourself. You will find that she doesn't deserve such a great guy like you. Some other sweet girl will come along and things will click in. Be ready. Good luck.
2006-09-03 06:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by deedermarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end you have to ask yourself, in which situation would you feel the most miserable. If you stayed with her it's most likely that she would have no real reason to change because if she cheats and you stay, what motivation have you given her to change.
If you stayed in that situation one of two things would've happened,
1. she'd have just kept cheating and you would have kept resenting it until she found someone else to start the game over with.
2. you'd have wound up hating her and lashing out at her.
Both are miserable scenarios.
I know it doesn't seem like it but the only way to get over it is to move on and let it go. The sooner you let it go, the sooner you will get over it.
Considering a second chance is like picking a scab you got from a dog bite, It'll never heal and it reminds you of the trauma of the attack.
2006-09-03 13:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by crazygreeniis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do all these things things for a girl that will appreciate it. Dont waste your tears on this girl who is stepping all over you and making you look like a fool! Love someone that is going to love you back. I know it is a hard thing to deal with. When I think about my ex and all the love I had for him and all the sweet things I did for him. He has plenty of things to show that I loved him, I dont have a damn thing to show for the whole time we were together, he even took a damn bandana back that he gave me. So dont waste your time. Find you a girl that will love you and not cheat on you. Thats the best advice I can give you, Love! Hope you take it and run with it and stop crying over this girl!
2006-09-03 13:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time. i don't know if you'll get over her but move on
2006-09-03 13:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋