Is this bad or ok?

Question

If you are a christian and you do not curse but want to curse during sex, is that bad? Is bad language ok during sex with the wife/husband?

Answer 1

no, it doesnt matter what you are doing,

Answer 2

You're probably using "bad" language, not really cursing:

"In its popular acceptation cursing is often confounded, especially in the phrase "cursing and swearing", with the use of profane and insulting language; in canon law it sometimes signifies the ban of excommunication pronounced by the Church. In its more common Biblical sense it means the opposite of blessing (cf. Numbers 23:27), and is generally either a threat of the Divine wrath, or its actual visitation, or its prophetic announcement, though occasionally it is a mere petition that calamity may be visited by God on persons or things in requital for wrongdoing. Thus among many other instances we find God cursing the serpent (Genesis 3:14), the earth (Genesis 3:17), and Cain (Genesis 4:11). Similarly Noe curses Chanaan (Genesis 9:25); Josue, him who should build the city of Jericho (Joshua 6:26-27); and in various books of the Old Testament there are long lists of curses against transgressors of the Law (cf. Leviticus 26:14-25; Deuteronomy 27:15, etc.). So, too, in the New Testament, Christ curses the barren fig-tree (Mark 11:14), pronounces his denunciation of woe against the incredulous cities (Matthew 11:21), against the rich, the worldling, the scribes and the Pharisees, and foretells the awful malediction that is to come upon the damned (Matthew 25:41). The word curse is also applied to the victim of expiation for sin (Galatians 3:13), to sins temporal and eternal (Genesis 2:17; Matthew 25:41).

In moral theology, to curse is to call down evil upon God or creatures, rational or irrational, living or dead. "

To use "bad" language during sex with one's husband or wife, is, I'd say, perfectly OK - as long as the other person isn't offended by that language.
It all depends on the context. Or as the quote from "The Virginian" goes: "When you call me that, smile."

"Another poker game in a flyblown Wyoming saloon. The tall, dark ranch hand takes his sweet time. "Your bet, you son of a *****," the dealer says. The other men around the table brace themselves for one of those small bloodbaths that keep them on the toes of their cowboy boots. The stranger draws his pistol, but it's his words that disarm his opponent. "When you call me that, smile," he says."

Answer 3

It's OK unless it bothers your spouse. If it bothers them, then quit doing it, or just think the words, where they can't hear you. Sex is supposed to be good for both of you, do don't make it bad for your partnet.

Answer 4

good. of course, no offense to all and sundry, human beings have not examine stuff on line. those days yahoo had an editorial asserting 8 hours is now no longer the mandatory quantity of sleep mandatory. 6 hours is extraordinarily good.

Answer 5

Its bad anytime. If you want to talk dirty there is something wrong. It is possible to use graphic language but I am not sure your spouse would like it. Maybe you should talk about it.

Answer 6

Honey, talking dirty only serves to make the sex more enjoyable. It ain't bad, do it, enjoy.

Answer 7

If you have to worry about such trivial things as this, aren't you over the edge with religion?

Answer 8

Go for it ....as long as its the wife your talking to !

Answer 9

i kinda think dats bad but holla at me [e-mail]

Answer 10

It's only ok if it helps you to procreate.