i was drinking and so was she but we stopped and month later could that be why? also am i missing vitamins or is could she be or is it because we lots of sex! like 3-4 times a day!
2006-09-03 05:56:38 · 15 answers · asked by joel v 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
i work out alot can that be a reason also? i only take leukic its an anabolic compound and i take cell-tech which is creatine. we are married and we have gotten pregnant before but we got a miscarriage this happened in may of this year. before she had cyst and she got operated and the surgery was a success and the doctors said she would have no problems in getting pregnant.
2006-09-03 06:37:13 · update #1
Stop putting it in her a s s.
2006-09-03 06:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nature does it's own thing, and not on demand. for some couples it takes several years to spawn a child. You were right in that both of you need to stop drinking (and stop smoking if you do that). It's always suggested that the guy wear comfortable shorts, and that the girl be off the pill. And, of course, not be seeing others. Sometimes stress can cause infertility. If after a few years nothing happens, then see your doctor as you may need to be tested and maybe your wigglers may need a boost. Infertility pills (frustrating, costly, time consuming) seems to cause multiple births so be prepared.
One other suggestion would be that you're married, or intend to marry when she gets pregnant so the child has a good upbringing and takes on a surname (if you are in the USA).
You didn't say how long you've been trying for a baby. Give your efforts some time to produce results. Once you have a kid you can't send em back, so enjoy your single time together.
2006-09-03 13:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most couples that have unprotected sex get pregnant within one year. It can take a bit longer if girlfriend was on the pill. Your problem may be related to stress. Also - sometimes abstaining for a couple of days and then having sex while she is ovulating will increase chances for pregnancy. Make sure she is getting folate.
My unsolicited advice - marriage. That way she will know that you have a lifelong commitment to her and the baby.
2006-09-03 13:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by petlover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying if you really want something dont try so hard LOL....Just relax have her buy one of those ovulation tests...so that way the both of you know when's the best time...and you know what just have fun while doing it making a baby isnt a chore...just relax it will come in time and if a year goes by and there's still nothing then if I were you I would ask a doctor...dont jump to anything yet...and alcohol wont ruin your chance either...LOL..thats how a lot of babies are made LOL...Good Luck :)
2006-09-03 13:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ovulates around the 14th day of her cycle (If she is on a 28 day rotation). This means that 14 days after she starts her period an egg should be making its way out, ready to be fertilized.
That being said, you want to start having sex on the 12th day and keep having sex until the 17th day. Sperm can survive in her for up to 3 days and this way she will have a nice supply in there waiting to greet her egg when it pops out. :) The 15th -17th days are just for backup.
Lucky for you, this means you get a solid 6 to 7 days of sex, sex and more sex. haha
Best of luck to you. She might want to start taking pre-natal vitamins now, before she conceives, this way she will have a good supply of folic acid which is critical in the earliest stages of development for the embryo.
You can cut out on junk food and take a daily vitamin yourself. Stay out of hot tubs, don't overheat your little fella's and don't masturbate in the shower, wasting anything that could be used productively.
On the contrary, you two can not have sex for three days prior to her 12th day of her cycle so you can build up a healthy supply.
If after a year of trying and there is no conception, then you should seek medical assistance.
Best wishes!
2006-09-03 13:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and quit trying so hard and let things happen naturally. Also a big reminder....Take care of your bodies No DRUGS or ALCOHOL before you bring a child into this world and remember it takes an average of $800 per month to raise a child. And something else when you have a child your life is not yours any more.
2006-09-03 13:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually having sex that often could be the reason. You don't give yourself enough time to regenerate sperm. She should get one of those fertility monitoring kit and try to wait a few days in between so that when the kit says she is ovulating, you have sex.
2006-09-03 13:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry give urself a yr of trying, make sure u stay clean and sober, u can get lots of otc help, they have tests for ur sperm tests to tell when she is ovulating. u too can do basil method which tells u when u r ovulating by ur temp but u need to keep a daily chart good luck!
2006-09-03 13:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Miss B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your SEMEN EXAM done by some reputed lab first, your 'girl' may need a gyne checkup/scan for ovulation, and then contact me with the reports . bliss@yahoo.co.in, wishes, Dr. Aurora
2006-09-03 13:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT EVERYONE CAN HAVE A BABY RIGHT AWAY. IT MIGHT TAKE A COUPLE OF YEARS TO GET HER PREGNANT. IF YOU DONT HAVE SEX AT THE RIGHT TIME THEN HER BOYD ISNT READY FOR IT.
2006-09-03 12:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by curves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried doing it when she is ovulating go to the doctore get your sperm tested see i you have non swimmers or she needs to check to see if her ovaries are producing tht could be an issue. good luck
2006-09-03 12:58:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋