i am the only person he told. his dad is very violent and his mom and brother and him can't leave cause thier dad has all the money for their family. They can't sue him because he has a cover story which is a lie, but it is believable. I know that my friend is tellin the truth because i've seen and met his dad and he yells constantly and is rude and awful. is there anything i can do to help.
2006-09-03 05:56:10 · 20 answers · asked by Tinkerbell eats Yahoo! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i want to tell someone but he asked me not to so i would feel guilty even tho it would be the right thing to do. if anything goes wrong their family will have no money or house and the dad will have everything.
2006-09-03 06:08:45 · update #1
tell some one immedialety.
2006-09-03 05:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ermac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a shelter so what if he has all the money! which is better a life time of beatings or a little bit of a struggle to be safe? I have been through this and it was my ex-husband and me and my two children go out we had nothing but now we have a whole new life a house good job so do not settle for the beatings please that is what makes criminals in our society, get help and fast as you can there are people out there who will help you with open arms and protect you. Good Luck and do not wait!!!!!
2006-09-03 06:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by twinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right thing to do is tell someone like your parent(s). See what their thoughts are first. The wrong thing to do is to ignore it because if you don't tell someone something bad could happen and it will be to late. Then you would have to live with the guilt. It's like if you had a friend who threatened suicide and you ignored it then you found out he hanged himself you would be very very crushed.
2006-09-03 06:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone. They have special teams that know exactly how to react to this kind of situation.
Is there a psychologist or social service person in your school? Anyway, tell someone you trust. Good luck to you and to your friend.
2006-09-03 06:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone in authority who might be able to help - a minister, a school counselor, the police, a social services person.
Good luck. I hope that you can help your friend.
2006-09-03 06:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by m15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an obligation as his friend to report this to the police and family services. If his mother truely wants to leave, there are organizations that will help her to do so.
2006-09-03 05:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do the bastard can retaliate. Stick close with your buddy. He'll soon be old enough to get out of the house. Have you told your folks? Good luck to you both!
2006-09-03 06:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell an adult that you trust, they can help you determine what to do for this family. Its a sad situation and I hope your friend can get out of it soon.
2006-09-03 06:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a violent human being and hitting actually everybody is incorrect ! what's causing the anger in you ? artwork it out and dont do it again.learn a thanks to be tolerant of peoples comments and allow them pass you via.you should use words truly than violence.those who hit others continuously have a tendency to do it again,so kind your self out.
2016-12-06 07:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your friend tell anyone with authority(teachers coucilors, etc.) and tell them in secret. Get a secret team and try to have him tell his family to also. Things can get done!
2006-09-03 06:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to any organization which helps in family matters.
2006-09-03 06:01:25 · answer #11 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋