My situation is that I have moved on, and vise versa, but we still are glad to hear from one another. The breakup was because the relationship had grown stale(IMO), and I needed more depth. I did it via email because I was afraid to see him again. Guess I thought I wouldn't do it if I saw him again. Still haven't seen him since, and he has since moved out of state. I tried the No Contact theory, but he has called over the holidays and my birthday. And I have kept in touch once a month or so. It's just weird to me that he still cares, and that I want him to continue.
2006-09-03 05:39:17 · 8 answers · asked by nomorebeans4me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's just natural to still feel a bond with someone that you were close to. (If it was a friendly break up) I still remain friends with several of my ex'es. There's really no reason not to unless it causes a problem with their current relationship, or your current relationship.
2006-09-03 05:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not going to put you back in the past it should not be a problem has long has it stays like it is?
Its scares people the thought of never actually hearing from that person again espically if you did not split up on really bad terms.
Just assure that it is friends because once one of you moved on you would want a bad reaction from the other.
Good Luck.
2006-09-03 05:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you caught the problem before it really became a problem.
I would LOVE it if my ex were a decent person. He's an abusive control freak. pulled a shotgun on me once.
If you're both good with the contact then go for it.
2006-09-03 05:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Maybe I'M the one who's weird - I have 2 ex-husbands that I wouldn't care if they dropped off the planet.
2006-09-03 05:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is good if you can stay friends as long as you are both happy with that. my ex has been my best friend but every so often he makes sexual sugestions wich scare me a bit there is no way I need that even though I have no oine else
2006-09-03 05:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its just u need to understand if u two broke up hell still have feelins for u its they way us guys r we just can't go out wit someone brake up wit them and still not care about them.
2006-09-03 05:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mitchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were close.... and you both appreciate that...which is good. Stay friends
2006-09-03 05:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by KMMM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart/ if its comfortable for you to remain friends then do so-----i think its harder to find good supportive friends then lovers sometimes........................
2006-09-03 05:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋