there's this guy i had a huge crush on when i was in high school but we were mere classmates back then..y'no an occasional hi n all.but he says he loves me now n now i'm not too sure as we're poles apart to begin with.... should i give it a try??? i don't want to get hurt again n even more i don't want to hurt him.help!!!!!!
p.s we're in different colleges now n i feel i've matured up n outgrown the whole thing.still i can't afford to make a wrong decision again
2006-09-03 05:31:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were "crazily in love" from Hi in the hallway? How far apart are your colleges do you live in the same town when home from college as in holidays etc...What if you start with a friendship first since NO marriage will last with out first being real friends...In school you will have the opportunity to meet so many people what if you were open to many friendships while there so you might be more sure of this crush when you do see each other...many a college career has been lost to LOVE the woman drops out and later regrets her life and resents him bla bla bla you are young don't be so serious if he IS THE one it will happen be friends for now HMMM?
2006-09-03 05:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by red heads ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to make decision now? Don:t you think this is a great time to be friends, and get to know each other, and take it slow, this way you can both concentrate on college, and be finding out about your feelings for each other. The separation will make your heart grow stronger, if you find out you both want the same things.
2006-09-03 12:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we crave the people we don't/can't have. Thats why you had the crush in HS. But you no longer feel the same (the excitement of the unknown is gone). You should never be with someone out of pity. You need to tell him you would rather just be friends.
2006-09-03 12:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋