My boyfriend smokes pot does other drugs and drinks and all, and I don't. I've never even been drunk! Recently, we got in a fight, and we both said things we didnt mean. I said that I was upset that he was never around 'cause he was always out. So he started staying in, to prove a point i guess? But now he's bitter. He says that he loves who he is when he's not drunk and high, but i can tell he's sooo bitter and it's killing him to stay in. But he says he loves me and he's doing it for me. Guys, do you think that he hates staying in?
2006-09-03 05:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by Me 1 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
he could be going through withdrawl. Also, he is used to living a certain way. It is very hard to change habits. He may feel slightly bitter, but the fact that he is sticking to his word and doing this for you shows that he is a good person. If you are really worried about him, talk to him about it. And make sure you let him know how proud you are of him and how much you appreciate what he is doing.
2006-09-03 05:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When one person has to drastically change to try to make the other happy - that is called incompatibility, and will lead to fights and resentment.
What the two of you have isn't love...as much as you'd like to think it is...your lifestyles are far too different. You wouldn't be the first person to fall for someone who wasn't right for you.
My suggestion is that you let your boyfriend go back to the life that makes him happy, and you get to finding someone that you don't have to force to change...you will be much happier in the long run.
2006-09-03 05:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find yourself a boyfriend who's of the same mind-set as you when it comes to drinking or doing drugs.
Think about it - if you're into working out or bicycle riding, you could be doing that with your partner rather than doing it by yourself or not at all.
People need to find partners they have a lot in common with.
2006-09-03 05:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let hime go and find youself a bf that is on the same level as you
its not fair to him that you dont party and its not fair to you that he is always out partying
it noboddies fault, just not a good fit PERIOD
2006-09-03 05:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by capollar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor man alone except him as that or get out & stop wining
2006-09-04 03:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he hates you trying to change him. Get out while you can, it won't last. NEVER get involved with someone exppecting they will change.
2006-09-03 05:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kikka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's going through withdrawl.
2006-09-03 05:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by windfishfighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he is gay or u need to smoke some and lightin up
2006-09-03 05:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by jonny d 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋