I think I'm ready for sex but I don't know how to start. Do I put on music I don't know what to do first. please give me some suggestions.
2006-09-03 05:04:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to say you "think" you're ready, then you aren't. Find someone you really love and care about. I think it's reasonable to say that most people (girls in particular) who have had sex will say that they wish they had waited longer. Don't be another one.
2006-09-03 05:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both you and your future husband a favor and wait until you're married. There is no rush to engage in sex and it sounds as though you're really not ready. Take your time sweetie.. the act of sex only lasts a few minutes and you probably won't remember it but when engaging with a true loved one, for the right reasons, the memory will last a lifetime.
2006-09-03 05:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Avery W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're clearly not ready, your hesitant question is a followup to your first question:
"Should I go with him?
I like this boy, but I dont know if he likes me. I see him watching me at the pool. He's the popular type and I 'm the popular type, but he's gonna wanna have sex with me. I dont think I 'm ready for sex right now. Well I'm ready but I'm scared. If I go with him if I dont have sex with him will he still like me. Should I go with him?"
Clearly you are under the impression that having sex with him will make him like you, it's only going to make him like you for sex and what good is that. You don't build a meaningful relationship on sex, it just doesn't work that way.
2006-09-03 05:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put on music,sit back and think, be a little more sure of yourself and also make sure your ready to support a kid or feel the guilt of an abortion. it only takes one mistake or accident.a real man will wait and its better with some one you really love
2006-09-03 05:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only think your ready.Try not to if you only think your ready than your NOT.But if you go and do it anyways.Please make your man use a condom.
2006-09-03 05:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? cause you sound like really young to me.anywayz if you are not sure don't do it and please don't make a mistake like having sex with a guy thats only using u
2006-09-03 05:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with jax. don't have sex so u will stay safe. wait till ur married.
2006-09-03 05:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only thing i tell u is take you time with and go slow and u should be fine don't think so hard on it or will not be good because YOU ALWAYS THINK ABOUT YOUR 1ST TIME
2006-09-03 05:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you -- and is your boy/girlfriend ready?
2006-09-03 05:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about u not have sex. u'll be healthier and have no regrets.
2006-09-03 05:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋